#InternetHookups #OnlineDating #SexualAttraction #MeetUp #CasualEncounters
Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you’re meeting up with someone from the internet for a casual encounter, and you’re not quite sure if you’re going to be into it? It’s a common dilemma for many people who engage in online dating or hookups. But fear not, there are ways to assess if you’re going to be attracted to your potential partner before you actually meet them in person.
👀 Assessing Attraction Beforehand
When it comes to meeting someone from the internet for sex, it’s important to take a few factors into consideration to gauge whether or not you’re going to be into it. Here are some tips to help you assess your potential attraction to your hookup partner:
1. Photos and Videocalls
– Look at their profile pictures and pay attention to any red flags or deal-breakers.
– Consider having a video call before meeting in person to get a better feel for their personality and vibe.
2. Communication
– Pay attention to how well you connect with them through texting or messaging.
– Ask questions and engage in conversations to see if you have similar interests and values.
3. Gut Feeling
– Trust your instincts and intuition when it comes to deciding if you’re going to be into it.
– If something feels off or uncomfortable, it’s okay to reconsider meeting up.
4. Boundaries and Expectations
– Be clear about your boundaries and expectations before meeting up with your potential hookup partner.
– Communicate openly about what you’re looking for in the encounter to avoid any misunderstandings.
🔥 Making the Connection
Once you’ve assessed your potential attraction to your hookup partner, it’s time to take the plunge and meet up in person. Here are some tips to ensure that the encounter goes smoothly and that you’re both on the same page:
1. Meet in a Public Place
– For safety reasons, always arrange to meet in a public place before heading to a more private location.
– Choose a neutral location where you both feel comfortable and secure.
2. Set Boundaries
– Communicate your boundaries and expectations clearly before engaging in any sexual activity.
– Respect each other’s boundaries and be open to adjusting them as needed during the encounter.
3. Consent and Communication
– Prioritize consent throughout the encounter and be respectful of each other’s boundaries.
– Keep the lines of communication open and check in with each other regularly to ensure mutual satisfaction.
4. Enjoy the Moment
– Relax and focus on enjoying the experience without overthinking it.
– Be present in the moment and let go of any expectations or preconceived notions.
Remember, meeting up with someone from the internet for sex can be an exhilarating and pleasurable experience if approached with caution and respect. By assessing your attraction beforehand and communicating openly with your potential hookup partner, you can increase the likelihood of a successful and enjoyable encounter. So go ahead, take the chance and see where it leads!
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you don’t just fuck. you talk on the phone, then video chat, then meet for drinks, and finally you fuck
Aside from just a couple of still body shots you know that you’ve agreed to , suck, fuck, or be fucked upon meetup. One and done and leave with the feeling of little control which in most cases was the intent.
I am friends with several gay men who do hookups. I think they just happen to have really high libidos so their criteria for who they want is less strict. Also, these men talk really openly about sex beforehand so there are no surprises. Their profiles have nude pics, health status, sexual preferences, and kinks all listed. This personally would take some of the allure/mystery out of it for me but it works for them!
There is a mutual attraction, you are both/all DTF. There’s really nothing else required.
All parties want sex otherwise you would not be looking for sex on the Internet/apps etc.
There are instances where you meet and the chemistry just doesn’t work, you are all adults so just say so an leave.
I mean you don’t always know for sure lol. From conversation/pics etc you should definitely feel confident that you will enjoy it but yeah perception isn’t always reality. If you ask anyone who frequently hooks up in this manner there will definitely be stories that end with “can’t believe I did that”, or “yeah he/she was kinda gross, blocked their number after” lol hopefully those are not a frequent occurrence though.
Sometimes you arent into it when you meet them.
I already knew about tubgirl so I was ready.
Been doing it since my late teens-early 20s and Im in my late 30s now. I dont need the attraction, Im just trying to fuck and go on with my day/night. I feel like the sentiment is shared with most women I end up sleeping with, either we continue meeting up until one of us breaks it off or we never speak/see each other again.
I used to be big into hookup culture. It wasn’t about the person or what they looked like. Attraction had nothing to do with the decision. It was the spontaneous, risky sex that was the hot part. I didn’t care who it was with. Also, having (good) sex with anyone makes them a teeny bit hotter regardless of their appearance.
If they look even half like their picture I’m good to go. Ad a guy it doesn’t exactly take much for me to want to fuck. It’s gonna feel good either way
Usually there’s more to it then 5 tinder messages show up and instantly start fucking. There’s usually chatting over text or on the phone and then in person before shit starts happening. There’s time to bail, which I’ve done before
Once you show up if the sex isn’t good then so be it. It could even happen with people you’ve been dating for a while and havnt slept with yet. End of the day it’s sex so it’s usually not a horrible time unless something goes really wrong. If it wasn’t great I just don’t go back for round 2. Maybe I wasted an hour or night of my life but so be it, it’s worth the risk lol
Well it wasn’t on the first meeting. There was usually just a coffee date (about an hour or so long) to see if we click. Sex happened usually on the second meeting. I did this as long as it sounded like a good idea. Once I felt I am ready to settle I immediately stopped.
I know that I am going to suck cocks or I am going to be.fucked I enjoy both so after they have used me I luv it
You aren’t always sure. When I was 16, dumb, a virgin, and on college, all my buddies would make fun of me for not having had a crumb of coochie. The girl I had been talking to (lied about my age to get on tinder but told her) took advantage of my naive nature and raped me. Overall though, as long as you’re careful, vet the people you’re talking to, understand your mutual intentions when you meet up, it should be all good.
All just depends on a million unknown variables though in the end.
Well you see pictures of the person beforehand and that’s usually good enough to know if you’re attracted to them. I also go into it knowing if they don’t look like their pics or there is something off about them I can always say no. Consent isn’t set in stone, you can revoke it at any time for any reason.
It’s a basic tinder hookup. Meet somewhere in public to vibe first. If the vibes are right, you take the vibes to your bed
It’s a basic tinder hookup. Meet somewhere in public to vibe first. If the vibes are right, you take the vibes to your bed
It’s a basic tinder hookup. Meet somewhere in public to vibe first. If the vibes are right, you take the vibes to your bed
A picture is plenty.
So the one time I had an internet stranger hookup, it actually wasn’t that great for chemistry and expectation reasons. So I guess the answer is that I would have sex anyway because it’s roughly as awkward as deciding to back out in the moment. If I had a strong enough aversion to the person in person I would just have to stop, theoretically, but it would have to be more than just not being attracted. They’d have to have bad hygiene or bad behavior or have unsafe sex practices. I’m married now so I don’t have to worry about it anymore, thankfully.
Sometimes it’s good, sometimes it’s not. But you can only find the really great statistical outliers by taking lots of samples.
It’s not really about attraction, more about just satisfying your needs
I recommend doing it, if you’re not with someone. Maybe a bunch of times.
I was working all the time after high school when my friends had threesomes, orgies, and other similar experiences, and partly to make up for it, but mostly I didn’t want to die with no stories, I’ve done it.
Be safe!
Well if it doesn’t work out you could always just have then for dinner, so there’s that.
-Clear some space in the freezer first
If horny jail was real, I’d be serving a life sentence.
So I have been wanting to hookup. But where do I find someone that is interested
For the few hook-ups I’ve done, I knew exactly what I wanted physically and they had it. We both agreed on what we wanted before hand. Most experiences were great, a few were good enough. Never had a horrible experience. There’s always a risk but that’s true of most any relationship, long or short.
I’ve been married about 6 years now, so I haven’t done this in a long time, but I used to do a lot of hook ups.
Arousal can build _throughout_ the act of sexual activity, meaning I don’t need to be 100% into it at the start to be really into it by the time I’m done. As long as the person had not misrepresented themselves in their photos, and didn’t have major dealbreakers like poor hygeine, it really didn’t matter to me if there were a few factors about them I found unattractive, as long as there was some attraction there. As sex went on, I would focus on what I _did_ find attractive and arousal would develop through foreplay, etc.
That said, if I didn’t have enough recent photos to make a decision, or hadn’t texted with someone long enough to get a sense of whether there would be enough chemistry to even get started, I’d just meet for drinks first. It’s safer that way for everyone, and less awkward to back out of if needed.
But let’s say attraction is on a scale from 0% to 100% (and 100% means they tick all those boxes you mentioned that you can’t gauge until you meet in person), if I felt even 50% attraction when meeting, that was usually enough to go ahead and still have a good time. That said, there’s been times when I went ahead with it when my attraction was much lower than that, like 10% maybe, and every single time that turned out absolutely awful.
Your sliding scale may vary.
>…to have sex, how do you know you’re going to ***be into it***?
Because, that’s the whole point of sex, physically being into it (into the vagina)
You just know it when you’re actually aiming for it on the internet. Met someone on sc, talked for an hour and traveled 200kms instantly 😂