#DatingEtiquette #ReadingSignals #UnderstandingExpectations
Hey there! 🌟 If you’re wondering how to navigate the complexities of understanding what a woman expects when she invites you up to her place, you’re not alone! Let’s dive into some tips and tricks to help you decode the situation and handle it with confidence. 😉
Reading the Signs
When a woman asks you up to her place, it can be a signal of interest and potentially something more. Here are some key things to consider when trying to decipher her expectations:
1. Body Language: Pay attention to her body language for any subtle cues of interest or attraction.
2. Verbal Cues: Listen to the tone of her voice and the words she uses to gauge her level of interest.
3. Previous Interactions: Recall any previous conversations or interactions to understand her intentions better.
Communicating Openly
While trying to understand what she expects, it’s essential to communicate openly and respectfully. Here are some tips to navigate the conversation smoothly:
– Ask for Clarification: If you’re unsure about her intentions, don’t hesitate to ask politely.
– Express Your Intentions: Be transparent about your own expectations to avoid any misunderstandings.
– Respect Personal Boundaries: Always prioritize consent and respect boundaries to ensure a comfortable atmosphere.
Real-Life Examples
To bring these tips to life, let’s consider a scenario: You’re at her place after a lovely evening, and she invites you in for coffee. Here’s how you can navigate the situation:
– Pay attention to her body language and verbal cues to gauge her interest.
– Engage in open communication by asking about her intentions gently.
– Respect her boundaries and be clear about your own expectations to ensure a mutually enjoyable experience.
Remember, every situation is unique, so trust your instincts and communicate openly to navigate these subtle nuances effectively. Good luck! 🌺
Hope this helps! Let me know if you have any more questions. #RelationshipAdvice #DecodingSignals #ClearCommunication
the most important advice is “talk to each other and express your expectations”. that solves most problems
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Ask her. Have a conversation.
I’m 38. I’ve invited SO MANY men up to my place.
Some it was to smoke weed.
Some it was for another drink.
Some it was to play games on my NES.
One was a cab driver who rubbed my feet for a while while he told me about the education system in Egypt.
They all had one thing in common: I was open to being open to more, but I really just wanted to smoke/drink/play Tetris/have my feet rubbed.
Talk to her. Some women will show you a sex swing and not expect to use it. Others will wear 10 layers of clothing and then ask you tomorrow why you didn’t pick up on her hints to seduce her.
You don’t, just go with the flow ,and if she wants something you don’t want, express that .
Ill let you know whenever a woman invites me
I’ll let you know if it ever happens. 🤣
Don’t ask her. That’s weird. “Soooo…is it ok if I leave my socks on while we screw or do I leave them at the door with my shoes?”
She expects you to be just as respectful, considerate, and gentlemanly inside her place as you were outside of it. Don’t go in with any expectations just let the natural flow go where it goes.
She will tell you.
When she says you cant park over there,you’ll get a ticket in the morning, you kinda know, but I never thought anything sexual would happen unless she made it very very clear
Go in expecting nothing and enjoy whatever happens.
But also clean your junk just in case
You ask.
I ask.
Body language.
You don’t. Good luck. If ever in doubt, plainly ask.
You ask
Unless specifically told you, ask. Never assume.
She always expects to feel comfortable and safe. From there, just enjoy hanging out and go with the flow. You can never regret enjoying good company with a woman while making sure she doesn’t regret taking the chance to invite you into her safe space. Even better, not only does she not regret inviting you, she’s glad she did. And hopefully, you feel the same way.
Not to sound crazy, but you could discuss it with her.
I’ve had a beautiful woman ask me over just because she likes our conversation and she feels safe with me. I feel safe with her.
I swab down my torso with alcohol cause I’m about to lose a kidney
You talk to her.
She’s a person.
If she takes off her clothes expect her to be getting ready for bed.
Make lewd comments and see how she responds
You have a voice. Use it.
Its never happened to me so I can’t answer the question 🤣😭
In 2024, it might be best to simply ask. No two women will be expecting the same thing, and I think a confident woman would enjoy and respect being asked straight out. Try to include something along the lines of “Just so there’s no misunderstandings between us” in the conversation.
Just ask, “Scuse me ma’am. Is this just for coffee or are we fuckin?”
it depends how well you know each other as friends don’t expect anything silly just act normal as you would be anywhere else.
You don’t. Conset and communication is important!
Go there and be genuine. If something is expected, it’ll happen, or not. You can fully intend to drink coffee. Go through all the steps to make it and pour it down the sink at the end because you or your friend decided you didn’t want coffee after all. Forcing someone to drink coffee even if you both talked about wanting coffee and they watched you get ready and make two cups of coffee would be weird. Don’t be weird and make someone drink coffee if they don’t want it. I need everyone to read between the lines here. Friends don’t force friends to drink coffee if they don’t want it, nor would they make someone feel guilty for not drinking coffee. It’s the best analogy I’ve ever heard for expectations in this situation.
She wants you to fix the leak under her kitchen sink – because she knows you can to it and she doesn’t want to spring for the cost of a real plumber.
Crazy concept, but you could…. *ask her*.
To come up to her place. Anything else would be whatever you both agree on together that’s how consent works.
1st date she asked if I wanted to Hange out, I said yes and 5mn of talking, and me staring at her she just said “you want to have sex don’t you?’ I replied Yes! I do! And that was a great night for both of us. 🙂
She expects sex lol
I got adhd and tend to miss hints when people give them, so I just ask or talk about it
now 27 and helped me a lot, you will be surprised how far you will get if you are open about sex, preferences and knowing how to ask things like this
>When a woman asks you up to her place, how do you know what she expects?
Well after decades of trial and error, disappointments, wonderful conclusions, awkward miscommunications , I have finally solved this riddle.
It takes several months of diligent practice, but the induced clarity pays future dividends.
Every day, practice making shadow puppets with your hands.
After returning dozens of table lamps, I find that you’ll need a 1000 lumen, 4500k desk lamp with between an 8 to 11 inch flexible reflector stand, below a 6 inch reflector.
This is your practice lamp-but keep in mind that you have to bring it on every date , social situation, or other circumstance , which holds any probability at all of receiving an invitation to the personal domicile.
Two hours every day, week after week, make shadow puppet dinosaurs, bunnies, ducks, dogs, the usual , you know.
Then, when your digits have reached maximum flexibility and a breathtaking shadow artist creativity, ….buy the Kuma satra, and practice perfecting bringing those images to seamless shadow perfection on any wall.
Some women like bunnies, some don’t , can’t tell until showtime .
Remember your back up escape plan, used by all experienced show business peeps, if you recieve any negative reviews ;
” what? Really ?..no, no, that’s just a duck. Sheesh, c’mon… ”
And if you’re one of those people afraid of hard work and practice, well, remember, you really can just talk to other people .
Don’t expect anything. If you want to continue to spend time with them go up. If you’re just going up for sex make that clear.
She’s expecting nothing! It means that the date went well and she enjoyed your company that’s all.