#BallPlay: A Common Non-Sexual Act Among Women?
Hey lovely people! 👋 So, I’ve got a little dilemma with my partner. He thinks it’s weird that I enjoy playing with his bits even when I’m not in the mood for anything steamy. 🍆💦
I find it super relaxing to just mess around with his junk – whether it’s in the shower or while we’re cuddling. But he’s convinced it’s unusual to do it without the hots for him.
I’m pretty sure there are others out there who also find joy in this non-sexual act, am I right? 🤔
Let’s settle this once and for all – how common is it for women to play with male genitals in a non-sexual way? Share your experiences below and let’s chat! 💬💭 #IntimateTouch #RelaxationTechniques #RelationshipTalks
My ex used to like holding it while we cuddled
I wouldn’t say it’s common but it’s certainly not unheard of.
I hold my own balls in a non sexual manner.
The problem is that it may not be sexual for you, but it becomes sexual for him very quickly. For some men (especially young men), you touch it and its like flicking a light switch. It may take a few seconds for the light to come up to full brightness, but it happens more often than not.
I do it to my bf too, as expected tmi for such topic, but I just love the squish of it, but if I play with it for too long, it’s not so squishy anymore… Lol
I get what you mean about relaxing too, to me I think it’s associated with comfort sometimes, and if I’m doing it, it means that in that moment I’m mostly likely home and we’re just having cozy times together, idk if that makes sense?
Ooooh, thats me. I stimm on balls like nobody’s business, I have a whole range of fidget toys that don’t hold nearly the same draw as men’s junk.
I have one ex that was amused but not so fond. I’m currently seeing a dude who for whatever reason appreciates me constantly picking at him. Can’t quite put my finger on the difference
That be great , some of us never get touched ,
I really really enjoy doing this. I always chalk it up to my Audhd, it’s like a fidget toy!!
My girl does this occasionally when watching a movie together in bed. I don’t think it’s weird at all.
Yeah, my partner and I do this to each other in a non sexual way. It’s just fun to touch each other
Sometimes
I mean, many men also like touching the boobs of their partner because they are squishy stress balls. On the other hand, unlike boobs, the penis is the primary sexual organ and if we then translate it to men touching a woman’s vagina for relaxation etc… then it becomes a bit weird. So what you are doing is not unheard of, but I can see why some people would find that weird. It’s just important that you and your boyfriend are on the same page and he gives his consent (also it’s important to *NOT* squish his balls… they are not as soft as boobs afaik)
If it makes him uncomfortable, you shouldn’t do it. Consent goes both ways.
You can even aim it like a garden hose but dont squeeze the grip.
have you tried holding it, while he’s peeing?
I’ve heard from some psychologists that it’s a very healthy thing to do. To interact with your partners genitals in a non sexual way. However idk how common that is
My favorite is just playing with and scritching his pubis 😂 i think it does hold the same comfort as holding my boobs or some other soft stim thing. He does it too.. he enjoys the non-sexual touches as long as i am explicit that there are no sexual advances happening so everyone is on the same page.
I love when my partner touches my balls in non sexual way!
I would love it
I’d say it’s uncommon but personally i’d welcome it.
He needs to read how to relationship, you’re already 10 steps ahead.
I also love just playing with my partners balls and penis. I really don’t think it’s that uncommon.
“If you stopped grabbing my penis all the time, I’d think you were mad at me. ” -my husband answering this question
It’s not unusual. My wife does it. She’s wondered all her life what it’s like to have a cock and balls and just idly playing with mine helps a bit to satisfy her curiosity. Nothing weird about it.
So, you doing penis puppets or something?
I’ve had my wife fall asleep fondling and eventually cupping my balls. I’ll be honest that I’m not a huge fan of it because it’s a huge turn on for me and I’m kind of disappointed if it doesn’t lead anywhere. It doesn’t happen very often though so I don’t make a big deal about it.
yep.
It doesn’t matter what anyone in this thread says. Just communicate with your partner. Unusual doesn’t necessarily mean bad.
You keep being you, OP.
Can confirm I like doing this too. My husband doesn’t think it’s weird, he definitely likes it (70% of the time it does eventually end up leading to sexy time though, even though I’m doing it mindlessly and don’t start it to be sexual, it ends up subconsciously turning me on).
I started doing it because he mentioned he thought he’d like it, though, so there was consent from the beginning in that sense. Does your boyfriend just think it’s weird or is he telling you that he doesn’t like it(/could it be that him saying it’s weird IS him saying he doesn’t like it)?
If he finds ot weird you touch his junk in a non sexual way then dont touch his junk in a non sexual way.
How could this possibly be weird? When you love someone, you usually find all of them beautiful and want to touch every inch of their body. Usually junk isn’t very accessible, so when it is, why not touch away. I’ll stroke balls the same way I stroke his shoulder, just mindlessly enjoying the way his muscles or balls feel under his skin.
I like to play with my husband’s junk but if I don’t intend to follow through then I keep it very brief and make goofy sound effects the whole time to avoid leading him on. A pointless boner is no good.
My wife dresses mine up in a suit and top hat
I’d say it’s weird in an endearing way. Good weird