Are M24 and F25 Co-workers Inviting Me to Their House for Pilates? #Pilates #Invitation #Misunderstanding
Hey there! So, M24 and F25, your work colleagues, have asked you to come over to their house for a Pilates session. But wait, are you interpreting this invitation correctly? Let’s dive into it to figure out what’s really going on!
Clarifying the Invitation
– Did M24 and F25 specifically mention a Pilates session?
– Have you participated in Pilates with them before?
– Are they inviting you exclusively or is it a group invitation?
Understanding the Dynamics
– Are M24 and F25 known for socializing with coworkers outside of work?
– Have they invited others in your workplace for similar activities?
– Is Pilates a common interest among all three of you?
Clarifying Communication
– Have you considered reaching out to them for further details?
– Are there any specific reasons why they might want to invite you for Pilates?
Remember, communication is key in situations like this! Don’t hesitate to ask for more information to ensure you’re on the same page. Who knows, this Pilates session could be the start of a fun and healthy bonding experience with your colleagues. #StayCurious #ClarityIsKey
You sound clueless. The indication that this is something more than pilates would be if she regularly flirts with you at work. I assume from your post that she doesn’t since you didn’t mention it. It’s just pilates.
Never assume. What you can expect to be doing is the pilates. If more comes from that, then surprise.
That’s why it’s impossible for women to have genuine guy friends
She’s better off inviting the fucking bear to do Pilates with her.
Without knowing her it’s hard to tell. But what we have here is “yeah you can come try my reformer one day”.
 1) Have you ever seen a reformer? They look like torture devices and they’re hard to use. They’re not sexy.
 2) She hasn’t said “Come to mine next week at 8pm for a personal Pilates session.” She has said “I’m getting some equipment. You can come try it one day in my shared house. Probably with my housemates there.”Â
It is very unlikely she is thinking “I’ll invite him to use the reformer and it’s going to get real sexy!”
so for the record, this is a perfect example of what women mean when they say it’s tiring to try and befriend men. It seems that to a cis straight man, every single action that could even slightly be construed as positive towards them is seen as not only a come on but an invitation for them to think of you outside of the bounds of friendship.
In other words those “pov he’s about to ruin your friendship” tiktoks that men get so mad about are based entirely in reality, this is that reality.
Anyways bro, stop thinking with your dick. It’s just Pilates. And this:
>Worked for 3 months together and I can tell she’s poses a risk of complication in work
Is frankly gross, control yourself jfc, you’re not pubescent.
You say she’s being professional at work. You’ve both discussed pilates, you told her you’re interested to know more about it. She’s a hobby pilates instructor. She’s invited you, a new work friend interested in pilates, to her place to do pilates.
You’re going to do pilates.
>I can tell she’s poses a risk of complication in work. Although she’s professional. it’s just the way she carries herself that’s all I have to go on, my instinct.
What does that even mean? I feel so sorry for women sometimes. You even say yourself that she’s being professional at work but for some reason she poses a risk of complication for you at work? My dude, come on… She’s trying to be friendly and you’re sexualizing her.
Don’t assume anything. Just keep an open mind. As well as if it does turn into more than Pilates. Respectfully shut it down. Don’t mix business with pleasure or don’t shit where you eat. Sleeping with and dating someone you work with is messy. Don’t do it. There are million of people in the world looking elsewhere
>I can tell she’s poses a risk of complication in work. Although she’s professional. it’s just the way she carries herself
Fucking excuse you???
**YOU** pose the risk of workplace complications, you numpty. She isn’t a problem just because she has confidence.
Learn to be more professional mate.
If she is a professional pilates instructor and she is inviting you for Pilates, its Pilates.
Now you seem to be the one to have second intentions. Don’t go to pilates with second intentions.
If you want a date, try inviting her to an actual date.
And of course, be conscious of the work implications.
Go assuming it will be Pilates.
One time I ordered pizza for delivery and the driver brought it to my house! He couldn’t be more obvious about his feelings 🙂‍↕️
Sometimes Pilates means Pilates.
Just assume it’s the pilates bro dont think anything of it. You’ll find out if she wants to do some other exercises during the break. GL
Side eye
How often have you asked her about pilates in the last 3 months?
Also, how about don’t act like a woman is a problem based on “how she carries herself”… whatever the hell that means.
Idk why every creepy dude thinks a girl wants to fuck them. Just live your life and take the words literally. Not that hard.
It’s just Pilates.
and WTF is “poses complications”? JFC
Sounds like she feels comfortable enough to allow you I to her home, don’t fuck that up by making her feel like an object
I’m going to guess that the woman is quite attractive and is “hot.”
A Cretin often interprets a “hot” woman as displaying a sexual interest in the cretin.
“Why would she look like that if she didn’t want me?
Woman: “come join me for pilates”
Man: “DOES SHE WANT SEX WITH ME???”
Dude…
If you go over there, you’re going to engage in some exercise. Be sure to dress appropriately.
Don’t go. She shouldn’t have to be in your presence more than absolutely necessary
At the very least, there will be pilates
This post right here is exactly why I don’t get too close with male coworkers. Would hate for them to think I “pose complications” due to the “way I carry myself” when I’m simply existing.
Based on what you told us, you’ll be doing pilates if you go. If there’s more to it, it’s impossible for me to tell based on your story. I see no obvious sings that this is about anything more than pilates.
It sounds like you’re imagining things. You say this woman is professional at work, but for some reason you assume she’s out to seduce you. I think she offered to have you come work out with her, and you should stop sexualizing your interactions with her.
God, us men are fucking dim creatures aren’t we
It sounds like you’ll be doing Pilates
Good luck.
Pilates is hard as hell lol
(But honestly, based on what you’ve said she’s probably just inviting you for Pilates, ESPECIALLY because you expressed interest in doing Pilates)
I think you should assume that you’re there only for Pilates.
So she has roommates, she already gives Pilates classes and she invited you sometime in the future with no specific timeframe. And you think it might be a come on? Lol
It’s just Pilates. How can you read anything sexual in this?
Overthinking
When in doubt, assume innocent intentions until specifically told otherwise.. it’s the safest and most gentlemanly thing to do.
🤦‍♀️. Dear can you take out the trash? Guy: sure honey. Thinking great we’re gonna fuck in 10 minutes.
Ryan can you move a big box for me from the attic?
Guy: yeah sure , I’ll swing by Saturday morning. Thinking awesome, she’s gonna give me a BJ, cool.
🤦‍♀️🙄
Lay off the porn
Why can’t women be nice without men assuming it’s flirting?
If you’re hoping for more than Pilates, lower your expectations and just go to do Pilates. If she wants more, she will make a move. If not, you’ll just end up with a good workout. Do you really want a “risk of complication” at work?
Holy fuck your Post history…grow up you little shit
She said Pilates. Then expect Pilates.