#Men #AttractiveQualities #Relationships #WomenSelfPerception
π« Men, what is something that your wife/girlfriend dislikes about herself that you actually find attractive? π€
Have you ever noticed that your wife or girlfriend constantly points out something about herself that she is not fond of, while you find that very thing attractive? Itβs a common phenomenon in many relationships. In fact, there are several qualities that women often dislike about themselves that their partners find incredibly attractive.
In this article, weβll explore the common insecurities that women may have and delve into why men often find these very traits alluring. Understanding and appreciating these qualities can deepen your connection with your partner and strengthen your relationship.
## Common Insecurities
### Physical Attributes
– **Body Shape:** Many women are self-conscious about their body shape, whether itβs their curves, their height, or their weight.
– **Facial Features:** From their nose to their smile, women often dislike certain facial features that you may adore.
### Personality Traits
– **Confidence:** Some women struggle with self-confidence, while men often find assertiveness and confidence to be attractive.
– **Independence:** Women may perceive their independence as a flaw, while men value a partner who is self-sufficient.
## Why Men Find Them Attractive
### Authenticity
Many men appreciate women who are authentic and true to themselves. Embracing their insecurities and owning them shows a level of authenticity that men find attractive.
### Individuality
Men are attracted to women who are unique and stand out from the crowd. Accepting and even embracing their βflawsβ sets them apart and makes them irresistible to their partners.
### Vulnerability
Women who are willing to share their insecurities with their partners exhibit vulnerability, which fosters a deeper emotional connection.
### Confidence
Ironically, men often find confidence attractive, even when women see it as a personal flaw. Confidence exudes strength and charisma, two qualities that many men find alluring.
## How to Support Your Partner
### Compliments
Offer genuine and specific compliments about the qualities you find attractive in your partner.
### Affirmation
Reassure your partner by affirming their beauty and worth, regardless of their perceived flaws.
### Emotional Support
Listen to your partnerβs insecurities and provide emotional support, understanding, and encouragement.
### Self-Love
Encourage your partner to practice self-love and acceptance. Remind them of their worth and beauty.
The next time your partner expresses their insecurities, take the opportunity to reaffirm their attractiveness. By understanding and embracing their perceived flaws, you can strengthen your relationship and build a deeper connection based on honesty and acceptance. Itβs these qualities that truly make your partner unique and attractive in your eyes. Remember, it’s not about changing your partner; it’s about appreciating and loving them for who they are.
Sheβs very self-conscious about her big rack, but I love it for its uniqueness. After all, itβs not often you meet a gal with antlers.
Pretty much my entire wife… she hates that part.
Her big butt, i like big butts
Thatβs sheβs my wifeβ¦.
Sheβs always complaining about her butt, I think itβs amazing though.
My wife always complains that she is βdirtyβ or βsweatyβ when I get close and I try to explain that I am extremely turned on by her scent and that sweaty lady parts send my pheromone sensors over the edge
My soon-to-be-ex-wife is overly-critical of her teeth. She says theyβre crooked but I told her good teeth are a must for me in a partner, and hers were amazing.
My ex was 4’11” and she was super self conscious about it. I loved her height though, I really enjoyed the awkward kisses and hugs.
Her nose. She’s asian and likes my high bridged “white” nose. But I think her little round nose is adorable
Her boobs it causes her back problems. I love them but for the sake of her health I wouldn’t be upset if she had a breast reduction.
A slight belly bulge
Her sneeze. She’s not like super self conscious about it but she acknowledges its a bit weird.
I think its cute. She does a normal splutter and about half a second later this little feminine “choo” that’s totally not part of the sneezy chaos.
Its kinda like “haaa…spssst….choo”
Her calves.
My ex hated her βsmall breasts.β They were a pretty nice sizeβ¦ they just werenβt porn star HUGE.
her Grey hairs
That she likes to talk a lot.. I actually enjoy listening to her talk because her voice is like something crafted from god himself
She always says “Are you even listening? I feel like I’m talking too much” and then when I recite everything she said for the past 20-30 mins she kind of blushes π
Her hair, she says itβs ugly or too long but i think itβs perfect
Her vagina. She isnβt attracted to it at all but Iβm a huge fan.
Her hair. She grew up in a super white environment and anything that doesn’t match traditional white woman beauty standards is hard for her to see as beautiful on herself. Hair is a big one. Meanwhile I think her hair is absolutely gorgeous, like pretty much everything else about her.
Her weight. In college she was 110lbs, now she’s…. more. We’ve had 2 kids and getting older. I think she looks better now but she doesn’t believe me
her face. she thinks she is unattractive although she is the most beautiful woman on earth
Her ears stick out. She covers them with her hair. But I think they are adorable
My wife hates how small her breasts are. They’re barely an A cup, and she are wears these ridiculous padded pushup bras to make them look bigger. I love them exactly the way they are, and take every opportunity to touch/kiss/squeeze them and tell her. She still doesn’t believe me.
My ex had a big bum, which I love anyway, and she had little stretch marks around her hips and on her actual bum. She hated them, but it was the first time Iβd actually ever saw them on a woman, and they drove me nuts.
I actively look for them now. Big booty for the win.
Thick thighs for sure
Oh man I want the woman version of this question
An ex but, her voice
My wife is currently pregnant and is self conscious about the weight sheβs gained but I think itβs beautiful.
Her hair is going grey and I think itβs just the best. She hates the idea of getting older. I love growing older with her.
Aww most of these comments are so wholesome & sweet π
Clingy. Makes me feel wanted.
Almost everything, sadly. She’s a lot overweight (let’s say obese) and she feels ashamed for it an awful lot, even though I keep telling her that she gives me a boner everytime I see her naked
Answering as The Insecure Partner Of A Man, I hate my hip dips. My boyfriend *looooves* them.
The way her nostrils flare when sheβs snoring.
her tummy
Her height.
She’s 5″10′ and is self-concious. I absolutely love it (I’m the same height). She will wear heels and become 6″2 and it drives me wild. She’s an absolute goddess. Tall, slim and blonde but constantly worries because of society. We have a couple of friends built similarly and they feel the same, and they shouldn’t have to worry about that.
My wife has a white streak in her hair from a birthmark. She hates it. It was the thing that made me stare at her the day we met. Last week was the 29th anniversary of our first date.
Her accent when she speaks her second language.
My wife has coffee coloured skin..dark coffee if anything.
In her culture (China) paleness is considered desirable and healthy for women.
For me, I actually like her colour. She always worried about it but it was one of the things that attracted me to her.
My partner feels that her breasts are uneven or misaligned. Next Tuesday will be my sixth year of staring at them whenever I have the chance. Her visual issues are what worry me the most.
To all the men out there answering, go tell your lovely woman whatever you just said to us here and kiss her deeply after you finish those words. To the men who do often, even if their partners don’t believe them…don’t stop saying so. You’re fantastic β€οΈπ
My wife dogs on herself so much after having two kids. I think she looks amazing, plus the little baby pooch she has meaning for me, she gave me two amazing kiddos.
My ole lady is concerned about her weighing quite a bit more than when we first got together.
To that point, her cooking is what made me fat again. So like, you made us both fat. Congratulations, we are in this together.
Happy fat.
Her momma belly. She’s fit, but the extra skin is still there. I love it.
Her stretch marks and extra skin from her weight loss. Some of the larger marks are red but they look badass to me, like she fought someone or something. And the extra skin just makes her extra soft, like the parts with extra skin are some of my favourites. It’s so fucking soft
I dated a girl with a mild stutter, it was the thing she was most self conscience about. every single time she would stutter it would give me butterflies. I canβt explain why but I thought it was absolutely adorable