#RelationshipAdvice #ModelGirlfriend #SeriousRelationship
Hey there, folks! So, I need your input on a little dilemma I’ve found myself in. I recently met this amazing girl who happens to be a model (and yes, she’s over 18!), and I’m contemplating if I should pursue a serious relationship with her.
She’s not your typical stereotype of a model – she’s down-to-earth, super friendly, but a bit shy about her profession. I find myself attracted to her for her personality and not just her looks. But is it worth getting into something serious with her considering her job?
I want to hear your thoughts, advice, and maybe even some personal stories if you’ve been in a similar situation. Let’s have an open discussion about love, career, and everything in between. Plus, who doesn’t love a good debate on relationships, right? 🤔
So, what do you think? Is it a yes or a no when it comes to pursuing a serious relationship with a model? Let me know in the comments below! Let’s chat and figure this out together. 🌟
For me, that kind of relationship is a fun time, not a long time.
But, as so many point out brother, I am not you, and this is your life.
Live it, and make up your own mind.
Wise man say:
Don’t trust a ho, never trust a ho
Won’t trust a ho ’cause the ho won’t trust me
Hellllll nawwww
No hoes in my garden!
You gotta link bro? I’m sure if I could see then I could judge.
Enjoy bullshit like that for the rest of your life if people find out. I don’t judge sex/nudity workers but I don’t think a lot of thought goes into the dating scene after the fact.
The post nut clarity is gonna hit you hard
Old men have been saying for thousands of years since the beginning of time you can’t turn a hoe into a housewife. But you’re special you’re different you’re the exception to the rule after thousands and thousands of years of bad experiences it’s going to go differently for you(sarcasm)
If you’re embarrassed by her work then I wouldn’t do it. I’ve done that before or tried. Never again.
Probably not, but whatever floats your boat.
Idk bro. I thought that was a question you were meant to answer
Not for me. All the women in my family are the opposite of that. And we’re not even religious, we just have standards. I’d NEVER bring a woman like that into my family.
Besides the shame and embarrassment, it’s disgusting. That feeling in your gut never goes away. Your sympathetic nervous system is telling you she’s a bad mating choice. You need to listen to it.
Plus, committing to her means that’s the woman you’re going to raise your kids with. Do you really want a whore raising your daughter?????????
(yes, whore is the politically correct term for someone who sells their body, don’t @ me)
If you’re asking here then you already are having second thoughts. If you’re having second thoughts trust your gut. It’s trying to tell you something. LISTEN! (The answer is run.)
run…baby run
For me? No. For you? I dunno maybe?
Form your own opinion. If that’s something you don’t vibe with then don’t force it.
Thats entirely up to you brother. Is that something youre willing to deal with for the duration of your relationship? If you legit dont have an issue with it other than being slightly embarassed then sure why not. That would bother the absolute hell out of me so id personally be a no go on that. The biggest thing here is dont commit, then decide later that you wsnt her to stop. That would be shitty behavior.
I dont care about bring downvoted but dont! It will end badly . I dont think I need to elaborate .
Sorry bro. It might be fun in the beginning but somehow always seems to surface at one point or another
No, she sells intimacy for money. She had a price and can be bought.
Save your sanity and yourself from heartbreak and don’t date a literal hoe.
Unrelated to your question: I hate the trend (among many created by TikTik) of self-censorship on the internet. It’s okay to say “nude model”, cam girl, Onlyfans model, porn model, etc. online dude.
I will simply say something I’ve seen to be true time and time again:   Â
If a person is willing to sell their body/sexuality for money, there are *very few* things they wouldn’t sell.   Â
 Just something to keep in mind in all aspects of your potential relationship with this woman.  Â
Also, if she has an active online following, be very careful about ever saying anything controversial to her via text/DMs. People become very vindictive during break ups and influencers often over share with their followers to gain sympathy.Â
No , good for the summer . After Halloween part ways
No one can answer that for you bro. You gotta find out for yourself.
Anyone involved in that kind of profession = casual sex only. They are not relationship material.
Nope
I wouldn’t build anything with such a woman. You do you, but beware that will probably be a waste of your time and mental sanity in the long run.
I wouldn’t recommend it simply because you are already having second thoughts and are embarrassed by her work. That embarrassment is very real for you, and it won’t go away even if you force yourself to be okay.
In the end it wouldn’t work out for you both as somewhere in your mind this will be an issue.
No.
18+ model is certainly a way to say OnlyFans. I personally couldn’t but you gotta decide if you can deal with that mentally and emotionally yourself.
You are either comfortable with her profession and lifestyle or you are not.
Would you be happy to tell your family and friends what they do?
Are you comfortable with them working in the adult industry?
Smash only
I will probably get hate for it, but don’t get serious with a ho. Why go there?
IF you do, a countdown starts before you’re posting here again saying my girlfriend messages other dudes.
Way too many fish in the sea for that much upfront baggage.
For me it would be a no. Imagine years down the line you have kids and they find out what their mom did/does for a living. That to me would be more than enough to not pursue a relationship. I’ve been offered to be a male co-Star for a woman’s OF account. She was a FWB and wanted to do OF to make extra cash (she was a nurse). The thought of me performing and having content out there of myself was not cool, so I denied it and we broke off our casual fling.
If you can handle it, great. But you can’t commit and then bitch about it later, that wouldn’t be fair. I personally think OF is lame, and the 99% of women don’t fully understand the consequences of their actions. Sure maybe the top 1% of OF girls will be fine in life, but for your average OF girl it’s a ticking time bomb. There’s only one avenue up and out of OF, and that’s by doing harder and more extreme porn.
Also had an old classmate whose girlfriend was an average girl. He was literally plugging her OnlyFans so she could make more money so they could buy things and pay for rent. One of my best friends subscribed for a month and it was just her and him having sex, which was weird. Next thing you know she’s doing DP anal with 2 black guys and then he apparently breaks up with her over it. Now she is having full on Nelson anal while he is a bagger at our local grocery store. There’s always someone younger and prettier on the way, but there’s not always a girl who’s committed to DP anal.
I’d also had a girlfriend who in college did a photo shoot with her boyfriend at the time (he was a photographer). His assignment was to do a nude shoot with someone. Normally you could hire a model through the schools connections. But she didn’t want him to see another woman naked, so she did it. So he took photos of her and presented it to the class. At the end of it she kept a photo album of the shoot and that was that. It was indeed tastefully done, and that I was cool with because you couldn’t tell who she was and more importantly, it wasn’t plastered all over the internet.
OF girl? She belongs to the streets.
No.
End of story.