#ConcernedAboutMyFuture: Hey there, I see you’re going through a tough time right now. It’s important to remember that there is always help available and people who care about you. Let’s talk about some actionable steps you can take to improve your situation.
##Seeking Professional Help
If you are feeling like you want to end your life, it’s crucial to reach out for support. Consider contacting a mental health professional, like a therapist or counselor, who can provide you with the tools and resources you need to navigate these difficult emotions. You can also call a crisis hotline or go to the emergency room for immediate assistance.
##Building a Support System
Building a support system of friends, family, or trusted individuals can also make a big difference. Having someone to talk to and lean on during hard times can help you feel less alone. Connecting with others who have similar experiences and can relate to what you’re going through can also be beneficial.
##Setting Goals and Making Changes
It’s never too late to make changes and set goals for yourself. Consider exploring different options for education or job opportunities that interest you. Setting small, achievable goals can help you build confidence and a sense of purpose. Remember, everyone moves at their own pace, and it’s never too late to start something new.
##Exploring Relationships
Feeling inexperienced in relationships can be tough, but it’s important to remember that everyone navigates these aspects of life differently. Take your time to build connections with others and focus on building healthy relationships based on trust and communication. Building self-esteem and confidence in yourself can also attract others who appreciate you for who you are.
Remember, your feelings are valid, and it’s okay to seek help and support when you need it. You are not alone in this journey, and there are resources available to help you navigate these challenges. Hang in there, and take things one step at a time. You deserve to live a fulfilling and happy life. 💪🌟
If you or someone you know is in crisis, please contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255).
1. Get in a supportive enviroment, probably someone around you is shit talking you
2. Get any kind of job for starter. Create momentum, get the ball rolling
3. Meditate
1. Enroll into community college and take gen Eds. If you’re poor and apply for FAFSA you will get paid to go.
2. Why would you kill yourself just because you are a virgin or don’t have a gf? You need to focus on getting your mental health in order.. before seeking out a romantic partner.
I recommend seeing a psychiatrist about your mental health and also you have to find friends that support you
youre just a kid. at 20 i was skateboarding at the park & throwing rocks in a lake. chill out my guy
I was at your age too. At your age I wasn’t in college either. I’m 24 now but trust me things will get better. Also, don’t judge yourself based on not having a relationship. Many people get in their first relationship in their late 20’s and even late 30’s.
Don’t worry bro I jist turned 20 and am exactly like you, never had a female… tbh idgaf I have talked to like 22 year olds who are v’s too… like bruh if they are outgoing asf why tf should I care, growing up too watching like youtube communities even before guys like andrew tate and shit I realized women are overrated..like bro I am broke and shit and just now am about to do the college shit cuz my mom made me to but who knows bruh im honestly not looking forward to it but at this point fuck it, literally there was a time in september where I thought exactly like you bruh I had restless nights and shit I know how it goes..Like it would be 8 am and I realized I had 0 sleep but if I did go to sleep I would wake up at like 4 pm and folks would be mad…all type of stuff…like tbh I have had low points since then like in december and even the past few weeks just like you but ultimately I see the bigger picture..there are dudes our age being sentence to 15 years in prison and shit like that so Why should I be sad about 2 years…like literally 2 years doesn’t define me cuz me in a few years will be my peak or when I finally be happy again or even yet be the happiest I have ever been in life who knows…Like idc I have cousins my age who act uppity and shit cuz they went to college and got jobs n shit and also have others who are my age as well but live reckless and don’t care about life or not that but don’t take shit serious..but they are joyful anyways..If anything it gave me a lot of perspective.. bruh if you would have asked me 2 years ago I would have never imagine myself the way I am today.. But Everything happens for a reason I believe, I thought of doing what you plan on too.. I thought about coming back in another life but then realized it would be like cheating god, it doesn’t work like that I believe, I came to the realization that I have to find meaning in the suffering and the good times, just enjoy the journey of life.. even if its unenjoyful at times, tbh I know one day maybe even in a few years but hopefully by this year or next I will be back better than ever. Like bro just take a deep breath through the stomach and always be solution oriented no matter if you are flat broke right now or whatever is fucked up,..like bro I deal with smurks and shit when I meet up with random people and it kind of gets me tight like I know my teenage self would have slapped fire out of these aunts and shit and beat the snot out of these old dudes who view me as lazy or even cousins can get it but out of respect and maturity I just keep my thoughts to myself and I know eventually I will shit on them one day and thats yet another thing that keeps me alive and going cuz I need that motivation tbh… Like bro everyone can go against me and I can be homeless and hopeless but I know I will be a success somehow,everyones time is different, even when it comes to dealing with females in that way,I been broke and on top of that been scammed like twice ..man I recovered tho but it took time bruh I felt defeated and everything..life can get crazyyy or hectic rather..just got to treat everyday as something to look forward to bro even if its just cleaning your room or something or filling out some surveys or helping around the house or getting some income or researching ways to get income or whatever, literally theres a lifetime don’t take gods opportunity of life for granted.. theres a lot to look forward to, thats how I look at it now atleast
There is more to life than just sex. Please find a therapist or someone you trust to talk to. Ending your life is not the answer. Do not do it.
Online schooling is an option. Also if you want to go to college just start applying! You are young. My brother was doing online school then decided he wanted to go college at the age of 22 & lives in an apartment with 4 random dudes he met moving in lol. You can always get a loan. Don’t sweat it, you have all the time in the world to figure things out! It just takes focusing on one thing at a time & the rest will fall into place. Being in a relationship can sometimes be more stress than good honestly. I would just focus on what you can do to better yourself.
Bro I went to college at 27 and now I make 6 figures. I wish I was your age and did it sooner. You’ll do great in life !
Also if you do decide to go to college you’ll meet people.
I didnt go to college till 24, and i am still a virgin. Because i am ace.
I am now a career consultant, sales manager, and mod of this group. I own (well, partly….mortgage) my house and car is paid off. I have skills for days.
At 19 almost 20, i had a pt retail job and nothing else.
At 19, you are not expected to have anything including not one clue about what you wanna do! At 19, *your brain isnt even close to done developing yet*.
Saying you want to kill yourself at 19, is a lot like saying you wish to kill a child. So… reformat time.
1. You are comparing yourself to somebody and not in a fair comparison, apples to apples way. Compare yourself with 19 year olds you KNOW. Not 21, 22, or older. Apple To Apple.
2. Having had sex by 19 is not a measure of adulthood or success in any way, including to adults. Real adults would want you to wait till you can support a child at least. Toxic masculinity wants you to have sex by 18. Stop listening to toxic masculinity.
3. College by 18 or else….nah. colleg when you are ready and know something you wanna study. Till then, work a plain job or two, keeping eyes open for cool looking things.
Realize you aren’t alone, there are many people in your situation. Hopefully you can get a support system and make some daily life changes to better yourself 1 day at a time. Please don’t do it, I think a lot of young men are having this issue. Hope you get help.
I didn’t go to college until I was 32. You’ll be fine. Really, if you listen to any of the people who went to college young, they’re all complaining about how it’s debt slavery.
Not taking your words lightly….. Know this: if you commit this act, you will never experience the things you are talking about….
A girlfriend only gives you more problems and college is worthless today. Reframe your mindset.
Look into “inner engineering” by Sadhguru. It’ll change your life.
I’ll be 30 when I graduate college. If you start now, you’ll graduate way sooner than me.