#GreenFlags #WomanOfYourDreams #RelationshipGoals #PerfectPartner
Genuine Connection and Chemistry
One of the biggest green flags you can find in a woman is when you feel a genuine connection and chemistry with her. This includes having deep conversations, feeling understood, and being able to be yourself around her. When you feel that spark and connection, it’s a sign that you may have found someone truly special.
Supportive and Empathetic
Another important green flag is when a woman is supportive and empathetic towards you. This means she listens to your concerns, provides emotional support, and shows understanding in difficult situations. A partner who is there for you in times of need can truly make a difference in your life.
Ambitious and Driven
An ambitious and driven woman is another big green flag to look out for. When a woman has goals, dreams, and aspirations, it shows that she is independent and motivated to succeed. Having a partner who is ambitious can inspire you to reach your own goals and build a successful future together.
Positive Attitude and Sense of Humor
A woman with a positive attitude and sense of humor can bring joy and laughter into your life. A partner who can make you laugh, see the bright side of things, and approach challenges with a positive mindset is truly a gem. Life is better when you can share moments of happiness and laughter with someone who brings positivity into your world.
Trustworthy and Honest
Trust and honesty are essential pillars of a healthy relationship. Finding a woman who is trustworthy, honest, and transparent in her communication is key to building a strong and lasting connection. When you can rely on your partner and trust them completely, it creates a solid foundation for a fulfilling and long-lasting relationship.
Overall, the biggest green flags you can find in a woman are those that make you feel happy, supported, inspired, and loved. Keep an eye out for these qualities in a potential partner, and you may just find the woman of your dreams. 💚🌟
I took her fishing and she baited her own hook without a fuss. Many a Crappie were caught that day and she gutted and cleaned them saying, “My grandpa showed me how starting since I was a little girl.” My response: where have you been all my life?!?!?!?!
She wants to watch sports games together 💒
Not playing games.
I once met a girl online (not a dating app) she was not looking to date so she told me that -> turns out she was a wonderful person, and we were friends for years.
With another girl seemed like we were looking for different things, so I didn’t try to move things along. She asked me out. -> Never in my life have interactions with people been so simple as with her.
She is able to laugh at herself when she messes up, and she can admit when she’s wrong.
She admits her mistake.
She reciprocates interest and effort.
The desire to learn how I want to be treated, rather than to just assume it based off her past experiences.
She apologized and had accountability. She also was not influenced by her friends and cut them out if they crossed the moral code she holds. Furthermore she believes there is no reason to marry if you’re not planning to have children and/or sex. Finally if she chases you and asks you to marry her. I have been a happy mother fucker for the last 30 years and still treated like a king. Good luck vetting
She sang Patsy Cline at karaoke and hit all the notes.
The ability to be wrong gracefully about something she is passionate about.
We were at dinner and she told our waiter she was at the restaurant the previous week for lunch when the electricity went out. They’d sent everyone out with a free lunch because they couldn’t run cards and she insisted on paying for the food she received during that time.
Green flags for integrity, honesty and fairness went up for me in that moment. Years later I’ve only ever known her to be honest and kind. She puts doing the right thing over what she feels/wants as a habit.
It’s a certain look when she talks to me.
I remember on our second date, we got caught in the rain without an umbrella. She laughed and said, “Let’s make a run for it,” and we dashed through the downpour together. By the time we found cover, we were both soaking wet but grinning ear to ear. It was the moment I knew she embraced life’s little messes and wasn’t afraid to face the unexpected with a positive attitude. That spontaneity and joy in the face of inconvenience were really telling. It’s been five years, and she still has that same infectious laugh and fearless spirit, whatever the weather may bring.
Emotional intelligence.
Fun, confident, and similar goals/interests.
My wife. When she met me I had some pretty unhealthy habits (smoking, drugs). She didn’t demand I change. She took me for who I was. And that gave me the strength to change by myself.
Also she’s super hot.
She said she’s sorry, identified what she did was wrong, the steps she’d take to keep it from happening in the future and she said if she does it again to please let her know so she can correct the action.
First and only woman to do that. And the apology wasn’t “I’m sorry you’re such an asshole”.
So I married her 😀
After we had been dating for several years post college, we were hanging out with my college friend group. We had all been drinking. She was talking with some of my friends, didn’t realize I could hear, she told them how lucky she was and that I was hot af.
funny, interesting, smart, and just genuinely a nice person.
gets me everytime I encounter these kinds of people.
My wife has 2 of the biggest green flags
1. She thinks it’s important and prioritizes me spending time with my friends
2. She wants to take space from arguments when either of us is upset. We have really healthy conversations
Same as most – personal accountability – not blaming problems on others or playing the “victim”.
(yes – some people are actual victims of abuse or other trauma – I am not talking about those).
She can quote Monty Python
Very nice relationship with her cat
being as active as me at engaging
and good honest communication, doest see every blip as a deal breaker but as something to work on together
Good judge of character, which usually means she doesn’t hang around bad people.
We were freshly dating (while working together) and she insisted on cooking me my lunches at her place and bringing them to work for me instead of letting me eat out every day. Home-cooked meals in a city where I knew no one was exactly what I needed. Just hit our 4th anniversary and I want to see 71 more of them!
My wife is such a hard worker. She has so much fucking discipline when it comes to working. I think it’s a cultural thing because she’s mexican. So many times, I’m like, “How about we both call in and hang out?” And she’s like, why would I do that?
She’s also so kind and caring. Extremely nurturing. She’s a natural at being a mother. Meanwhile, I was in a constant state of panic.
She’s calm under pressure. Doesn’t get rattled by anything.
She’s also incredibly direct with most things. She tried to make me get hints and stuff, and that didn’t work at all. 2nd date, she wanted to have sex. She had her top and bra off and was on top of me. We didn’t have sex. 3rd date, before we did anything. Like as soon as she got in my truck. “Let’s go have sex.” It’s been that way these past 13 years. She doesn’t play games. She knows what she wants, and she tells me.
She doesn’t get angry, or if she even does, it’s never directed towards anyone but the issue. Everyone says it’s the couple vs. the issue, not vs. each other. That didn’t make any sense until the contrast between my ex and my wife.
She taught me what a healthy relationship is supposed to look like and feel like.
It’s why I decided to spend my life with her.
Oh, also, she has a **huge** ass. It’s monumental.
She empathizes with men’s issues and never made me feel bad for having them. I never got that empathy and understanding from anyone else.
My GF and I had a minor argument before we even got together (we were coworkers). The next day, she brought it up herself and apologised for being grumpy. Greenest of flags there is IMO. It’s pretty great to be with someone that has introspection and who isn’t afraid to communicate.
Doesn’t overcrowd you, and is okay with you being on your own or with friends — doesn’t think you are cheating every time you leave her sight.
-Builds you up.
-Listens and communicates like an adult.
-Doesnt belittle, but also challenges growth in herself and yourself.
-Got an ass for days.
Great communicator.
Admits when they’re wrong.
Respectful to others.
Doesn’t overreact to small things.
Has the ability to decide what to eat, when asked, what would you like to eat tonight?
I had a dog that had been with me through my 20s that was my best friend in this life. He was starting to get a little gray in the face when her and I started dating. A few months later his legs started getting weak and he was diagnosed with cancer. She’d fallen in love with him and helped me administer his meds, keep up with treatment, etc. We moved in together.
I was having a pretty tough time with it. This dog had seen me through some really rough times between deaths of close family and friends, a marriage-(her)affair-divorce situation, and getting my mental health together in the aftermath.
When his legs totally stopped working, she was helping me lift his hips so he could poop and feeding him by hand – and I had a distinct moment where I knew this was my person.
We’re engaged now and bought a house together and I don’t think there’s been a single time where either of us has questioned whether the other has our best interests in mind. It’s pretty remarkable and something I’d never experienced before this.
Lady here but I’ve been told when I tell partners “it’s going to be okay” or “I’ve got this”. I know men need reassurance and understand that societal pressures are gendered for no good reason. If I can lighten the load and offer calm support I will.
If she’s able to forgive you when you make a mistake.
Laughing, not at you but together when things don’t quite work out.
Also there was this one girl who’d borrow my shirts when she slept at my place. When she at some point changed back to her own clothes, she’d always fold my shirts nicely and place them on my bed. Independent and tidy but not obsessively so was something that I really loved.
Saying ‘yes!’ When I asked ‘can I kiss you?’
One of the best moments of my life 😊
She understands that I have a disability. She’s empathetic, and she’s willing to help me however she can. That’s what I love about her.
Girls who have a smile and seem happy.
Girls who are kind to animals
Girls who are kind and polite to servers.
I was dating a woman when I had symptoms of prostate cancer. I had a biopsy done, and they told me that when I went back for the results that I should bring a ‘support person’.
That’s always a good sign, right?
Anyhow, my girlfriend came along, and was with me when I got the bad news.
We left the surgery, and she grabbed me, hugged me, and said ‘No more excuses, you’re moving in with me so we can get through this together!’
And we did, took me three years, but I beat it. Nearly 10 years after diagnosis now, clear as a bell.
We’ve been married for over 7 years now!
Her apartment is clean. The washroom is clean. She folds and hangs her clothes and puts them away.
She has good financial literacy and doesn’t just put the minimum payment onto her credit card
If she has a dog she has proper pet etiquette, picks after it etc
0 interest in me. Now that’s a woman who makes good decisions.
We were circling the block looking for a spot to parallel park. I approached a questionable space, slowed down to assess it and said, “ehh that’s a little too tight.”
Too which she responded, “That’s what he said!”
Game over.
First date. Went to a dance club. Sitting around chatting with her when a guy comes over to hit on her. Puts out his hand to shake, she leans over, says I’m with someone, points to me, doesn’t shake his hand, just kind of waves goodbye. Off he goes.
She didn’t take her phone out the entire time. She offered to split the bill. She asked me questions. I was smitten.
Brazil and Nigeria. She was a freak.
My current girlfriend and soon to be fiancé bought both of our drinks on our first date, it was only like $10 total, but she just did it like nothing while I was in the bathroom, and she didn’t understand why I liked that so much, I still don’t think she gets it, but it meant a lot to me
1. She actively pursued me back. Which is always nice.
2. When our flight was delayed, and then cancelled by bad weather, she didn’t stress out AT ALL. Just went “oh well, let’s go home and see if we can reschedule it.” This one is because my ex before her would turn into a giant ball of anger and anxiety if anything went wrong in regards to travel because she HAD to plan everything and stick to The Plan.
3. The smallest things make her happy, and she doesn’t really hide her enthusiasm. Watching her light up just because a duck quacked back at her after she quacked at it makes me feel things, man.
I was the grill cook, she was the salad bar girl. I gave her a ride home and we stopped at taco bell. I started casual chit chat, she raised her hand and said “stop, im hungry” … i loved her from that moment.
I gave a girl a ride home from a social gathering. We talked for the 20 minutes or so that it took to drive her. We were really hitting it off. I felt like she would probably ask me up to her apartment or at least hang out in my car and talk for a bit. When we got to the gate apt. she said, “Alright, you can just let me out here. Thanks for the ride!”
As I watched her look over her shoulder at me while she punched the code into the gate I was feeling deflated. She almost looked like she was trying to block me from seeing her code, and why didn’t she at least let me drive her to her apartment door. She didn’t want me to know where she lived. I was offended, but only for a moment.
My next thought was, “Really though, this girl is smart. I just met her and she doesn’t know anything about me. She’s different from these other girls I’ve been dating. I need to know more about her.” We’ve been married for 18 years now. About 10 years in I told her how her behavior that night attracted me to get to know her better. She said that really she was honestly disappointed that I hadn’t pressed her to invite me in or make a more brazen move. She caught herself though and thought that there must have been something different about me and that she needed to get to know me better too.
We had both totally misread the other and came to the same conclusion anyways.
First date with the woman who is now my wife: she started describing, un prompted, the same business idea that I had been working on for a couple of years. I knew I had a winner. 14 years later…still winning.