What do guys find unattractive that girls wish they knew? #datingadvice #relationshipinsights
Have you ever wondered what guys think is attractive but actually isn’t? Let’s dive into some things that aren’t as appealing as they might think.
Overly Controlling Behavior
– One thing that guys might find unattractive is when a girl tries to control every aspect of their life. It’s important to remember that everyone needs their own space and independence.
Playing Hard to Get
– While some guys might enjoy a bit of a chase, playing too hard to get can often backfire. Being genuine and upfront about your feelings is usually more attractive in the long run.
Excessive Makeup
– While makeup can enhance one’s features, guys often prefer a more natural look. Embracing your natural beauty can be more attractive than caking on layers of makeup.
Constantly Seeking Validation
– Confidence is key when it comes to attractiveness. Constantly seeking validation from others can come off as insecure. Believe in yourself and your worth, and others will see that too.
So next time you’re wondering what guys find attractive, remember that sometimes less is more. Confidence, authenticity, and independence are often more attractive than you might think. #datingtips #relationshipadvice
No one else has said it so I will. Having fucking kids you don’t take care of. Boi fuck right off into the bin.
Being an assh*le to service workers. It is not a flex.
Turning the entire conversation into a sexual conversation. Like I don’t know you, and I only mention one thing that isn’t even that sexual!!! And no you didn’t do that with your ex, no you can’t do that!
Calling other people stupid for just mistakes they made because they weren’t trained properly. This is a work thing and guys love to shit on other guys. Whenever I hear someone call someone stupid… over nonsense like this.. I stop listening.
when your sense of humour revolves around schadenfreude, sarcasm and putting others down.
Hair that is excessively gelled.
Rubbing the clit like you’re trying to start a fire.
Ok, all you ladies are saying you’re not impressed by big/loud/fancy cars/trucks, but here I am over here driving a nice quiet econobox and I don’t even get a glance! SHENANIGANS!
That weird armpit / lats flex walk that gym noobs are sporting.
As a guy, I’ve found that almost everything I ever attempted in my youth to impress girls was more or less backwards. Turns out I (and many other young men around me) dressed/acted/lived to impress other guys and never understood why the girls weren’t impressed.
Not a girl but my guess is that reposting the damn same question every 3 days for karma farming.
Making mean-spirited jokes at my expense. It’s not cute or lovable.
Pictures with guns, cash, and saggy pants.
Thinking you are “too cool” for everything.
Everyone has different tastes, but doing that revving thing against another car against a Toyota Corolla or something is kind of unattractive.
For some reason, guys always race me. I’ve been the girl in the passenger side and have wondered if guys think this is attractive behavior. I’ve also seen girls in the passenger side when I’m in the Toyota Corolla, and I wonder if they wonder the same.
On the side note, I love when guys (this doesn’t go for everyone) mess with my hair or something. Obviously when I know them well, they’ll come up from behind me, put their hand on my head, and “pet it” is back and forth quick enough for my hair to mess up. Not sure if this is a regional thing, but I like it.
big loud trucks
Talking shit about other women. Just respect your ex for the good times or talk in a respectful way about the things that were not so great.
Being angry
Any kind of a sexually curious question about us when we are NOWHERE NEAR that point in getting to know the guy. Automatic turn off. and STOP SENDING DICK PICS UNSOLICITED my god
Long, scraggly, unkempt beards
Nanny goat beard, weak mustache.
a lot of guys think being cocky and arrogant is being confident
im not a girl, but as cool as it seems to us…. I have yet to find a girl who’s as impressed when I light a fart and get a nice 6-7 inch blue angel as my buddies and I are.
I always read alpha male but have never met one of those dudes IRL wondering where girls actually meet dudes so delusional
Making the gym your personality, acting overly tough or other “alpha” shit, not showing any emotion, loud ass cars, listening to Andrew Tate or anyone else remotely like him
Being rude. Asserting dominance if we’re out, I’m not a toy
The very OTT “cool bro” behaviour. Girls find it annoying when a guy is acting overtly cool, trying too hard, trying to “bro” and “yo” everything. Fake and unnecessary.
Flexing their money, car, job ecc
Being angry all the time
Being a jackass with your car. Spinning out, racing in traffic, gunning it down residential streets… nobody has ever looked at these guys and gone, “Wow, dangerous disregard for others, so hot.”
Mods to your car to make it as loud as possible. Whyyyyyyy
Talking smack about other dudes to make themselves seem better
Bragging.
“Alpha” behavior. It’s annoying
Calling yourself an alpha male.
Unsolicited dick pics.
Bragging about your money. Even as an 18-year-old, I always found it off-putting. You have money? Great. You don’t have to remind me every five minutes.
Sending women you barely know porn and saying “I wanna do this with you.”
Being an asshole
Any of that ‘pick up artist’ stuff, it’s revolting