🌿 What are the top green flags that instantly make someone more attractive to you? 🌿
Are you curious about what qualities make a man or woman more appealing in your eyes? Look no further! In this post, we’ll delve into the green flags that can make someone stand out to you in an instant.
Positive Personality Traits
– Kindness
– Humor
– Confidence
– Empathy
– Intelligence
Physical Characteristics
– Good hygiene
– Healthy lifestyle
– Genuine smile
– Eye contact
– Dressing well
Her Hair, her smile, and can she keep a good conversation
Genuinely funny, nice, smart
Seeing them be nice and kind to others. Going out with a guy and watching him be polite and friendly to the waitress or waiter is a major green flag.
Humility, and a measure of personal responsibility. Appreciates a moment.
Empathy
Helpful to the people around them. That’s an instant green flag.
When they are kind to animals or people in need. Such a heartwarming feeling
Growing up with my amazing engineer mom who is extremely smart has really set the bar high for women in terms of competence and intelligence and independence. Nothing turns me on more than a woman who clearly has her shit together and is extremely smart
Kindness. Automatic, unthinking kindness that comes from deep down in the bone, not some gesture that’s designed solely to impress me.
I love football (soccer) fans
They don’t talk about Jesus on their dating profile, or on your first date.
Someone being religious is fine and all, just not when they make it their whole personality.
My wife told me it’s because how many kids walk up and talk to me. And it happens a lot. No matter where I am kids and small animals find me like a fucking Disney princess. The Annika’s not so much any more, but kids is all the time. They just want to tell me stuff and show me stuff and and try to get me to play.
You wouldn’t believe how many times I have to beg kids to leave me alone cause I am scared people are gonna think i am a creep.
And that’s when at the park with my own kids but they are playing and I am sitting on a. Bench. Kids will sit next to me get close and try to talk. It’s super fuckign weird.
My wife thinks it’s the best thing on the planet and attributes it to some kinds on supernatural sense kids have. Yeah, total bullshit but. Can’t be explained.
Calmness and kindness
She laughs at my jokes.
Fortunately, it was in our vows that my wife must laugh at my jokes in public.
Fidelity
When they’re interested in something you’re passionate about just because it’s your interest. That doesn’t mean it needs to be their passion as well, but showing an interest in what brings you joy or makes up who you are is so attractive.
When they’ve been to therapy.
Intelligence. And using this for clever comments and humor that just feel right.
Willing to help when and where he can. I love a man who isn’t afraid to show his heart/softer side.
Asking questions out of curiosity instead of inquisition.
There’s few things better than sharing something you like with someone you like – and then sometimes you get super lucky and end up both liking it.
Wearing a Robocop t-shirt.
This is a controversial one I think ( or maybe not maybe I’ve just been exposed to vocal minorities ) but I look favourably on people who are friends with their exes or at least don’t talk unreserved shit about them. It’s actually not that common for one person to be entirely wrong or “crazy” or just unfathomably unreasonable. I like when people demonstrate they can take responsibility, critique themselves, understand other perspectives.
They have a pulse
They smile and give you eye contact and listen when I’m speaking to them.Â
Intelligence is always the number one green flag for me.
Doesn’t care more about her phone than anything in person. People need to put then away.
If they take pride in listening and repeating, considering themselves fallible even when their passions are up, I’m into them.
A person who is willing to spend quality time with you.
They’re calm and you know they’re emotionally mature
Instead of screaming they talk it out
Honesty, communication, ability to accept when you’re wrong and apologise, able to work on your issues, a love for life, passion, determination, kindness, generosity, patience
The ability to adapt to any situation. Not letting adversity get to them. That’s a huge green flag for me. Survival of the most adaptable, not fittest.
Also, another random green flag are guys who are down to eat any and all types of food. If other cultures can eat it, we can at least try it. Picky eaters are a HUGE turn off. If you’re difficult about food then what else are you difficult about in life?