#MakeorBreakQuestion: Have you ever met someone who just rubbed you the wrong way from the get-go? 😒 You know, that one thing that instantly makes your blood boil and your eyes roll? I’m talking about that pet peeve that can turn a perfectly good day into a sour one in a matter of seconds.
For me, it’s when someone acts entitled and treats others with disrespect. 🙄 Whether they’re rude to a server, talk down to someone less fortunate, or just have a general air of superiority, it’s an instant red flag for me. It’s like nails on a chalkboard – I can’t stand it!
But I want to hear from you! What’s that one thing that makes you hate a person instantly? Let’s commiserate and share our stories. Who knows, maybe we’ll discover some common pet peeves along the way. So spill the tea and let’s dish! ☕ #InstantTurnOffs
👇 Poll time! Cast your vote and let’s see what really grinds our gears. 👇
What’s that one thing that makes you hate a person instantly?
1. Entitlement
2. Arrogance
3. Rudeness
4. Disrespect
5. Other (please specify)
Drop your answer below and let’s get this conversation going! Let’s bond over our shared annoyance and maybe even laugh a little at the ridiculousness of it all. Can’t wait to hear your thoughts! 💬
When they will make every single thing about themselves
Taking credit for other peoples work or ideas, and not acknowledging their source.
Acting different towards you in a group of people
Placing the one up game.
Rudeness. Instant turnoff
Any sort of difference in attitude towards people they perceive as “below them” or that they don’t stand to gain anything from
lack of compassion towards service workers, or just anyone in general.
When they won’t stop talking about themselves
Hate is a strong word, but someone who interrupts or talks over you mid-conversation is already starting off on my bad side.
Speaking over me and interrupting me.
People who easily invalidate someone’s feeling.
That’s super fake, ultra happy, customer service voice.
Littering
Being condescending.
Some people think it makes them appear confident, but they just come off as a douche.
People who minimize someone’s suffering by quoting examples of others who have it worse. Doesn’t make me hate but what a turn off.
Cruelty to animals
People who make jokes at others expense
Talking bad about other people behind their backs. I don’t necessarily hate them, I avoid them.
When I introduce myself with my name and they reply with the shortened version. Instant hatred.
Being jokingly rude to friends.
“It’s only a dog/cat.”
lack of self awareness in public
Being loud
Talking at their phone on speaker, cell phone speaker music in public.
Asking to split the bill evenly when they ordered a lot more than you.
Narcissism.
Littering. There is no good reason why you can’t hold onto something till you find a trash can.
Animal abuse.
If they spend more than 90% of the time I’m around them on their phone. You’re the type of person who is not worth my time.
Can’t/won’t admit they made a mistake. Won’t take responsibility for anything.
No one’s perfect, it’s okay to fuck up, it’s what you do to make it right that counts.
Starting the very first conversation with questions about my job, income and marital status. Rude af. Dunno why they’re even doing that, if that’s not a scam.
Not hate, dislike.
Talk over you
if theyre stupid but confident and LOUD
Anyone who talks down to those that work service jobs.
Smoking/vaping while using public transportation.
If they hit their animals
Entitlement.
When they think it’s ok to be racist in front of me (I’m a white male).
Preaching the Bible. Nothing wrong with being religious, but it should be a private thing. Don’t go being all sanctimonious and acting like you’re a missionary on some divine journey to convert people, Karen.
Now, if you want to talk theology in a philosophical way, I’m game.
Hate is a big word….But I really hate bullying of any kind
Insecure people that think being mean is the best way to boost their confidence.