#Bodyimage #Selfesteem #Fashionadvice
Have you ever been put on the spot by a woman who asks you, “Do you think this makes me look fat?” It’s a common question that many women ask, often seeking reassurance or validation. However, the best answer isn’t always easy to come up with. In this article, we’ll explore the best ways to handle this question with grace and tact.
## Understanding the Question
When a woman asks if a certain outfit makes her look fat, what she is really asking is for your opinion on how the outfit looks on her body. It’s important to remember that this question is tied to her self-image and self-esteem. Your response can either boost her confidence or leave her feeling self-conscious.
## The Best Answer
So, what is the best answer to this tricky question? Here are a few tips to consider:
1. **Be Honest:** It’s important to be truthful when responding to this question. However, there’s a difference between being honest and being hurtful. Choose your words carefully and focus on the fit and style of the outfit rather than making comments about her body.
2. **Focus on the Positives:** If you don’t think the outfit is flattering, try to find something positive to say. Compliment her on another aspect of the outfit, such as the color or the accessories she’s chosen.
3. **Offer Alternative Suggestions:** Instead of simply saying “yes” or “no,” offer suggestions for how she could style the outfit differently to better flatter her figure. This shows that you care about her feelings and want to help her feel confident.
4. **Reassure Her:** Regardless of your opinion on the outfit, reassure her that she looks beautiful no matter what she wears. Remind her that her worth isn’t determined by her appearance.
5. **Ask for Her Opinion:** If you’re unsure how to respond, ask her how she feels in the outfit. This can open up a conversation and show that you value her thoughts and feelings.
## The Impact of Your Response
It’s important to remember that your response to this question can have a lasting impact on the woman’s self-esteem. By choosing your words carefully and being empathetic, you can help boost her confidence and make her feel valued.
## Conclusion
In conclusion, when a woman asks, “Do you think this makes me look fat?” it’s important to respond with kindness and empathy. Remember that this question is about more than just fashion – it’s about self-image and self-esteem. By being honest, focusing on the positives, offering suggestions, and reassuring her, you can help her feel confident and beautiful in any outfit. So, the next time you’re faced with this question, take a moment to consider your response and choose your words wisely.
Hell yeah babe that ass looks fat. *bite lip*
No is the only answer
Look at it seriously, if it does point out where and why ‘the fabric folds weirdly on your hip here, it bulges out from your side, so you aren’t fat but it adds to your silhouette’
Or ‘oh I know your tummy is an insecurity, I think maybe yeah the top is a bit tight. You look amazing, but if you’re worried about the top and your tummy then wear something that makes you comfortable’
If it’s a no, say why.
‘no, it hugs all your curves perfectly and you look great’
‘no, it’s a big soft jumper but even the jumber being big doesn’t make you look fat. You look great’
“No, hun, it’s all the McDonalds you eat that makes you look fat. Don’t blame the clothes!”
I’ve seen you in it, now we should get you out of it so we can properly evaluate, for science.
“Well it doesn’t make you look skinny!”
“Not any more than usual”
And then run.
No. Your fat makes you look fat.
Okay, so I guess you want to fight tonight.
“You look amazing.”
My wife: “You say that about everything I put on.”
Me: “because you always look amazing.”
My wife: “that’s not what I’m asking though.”
Me: “remember that one time if you asked me if that dress was too clingy and I answered you?”
My wife: “You said it was clingy in the way that it would only look good on a super skinny girl.”
Me: “Were you a super skinny girl?”
My wife: “No. I used to be, but I’d gained a few pounds.”
Me: “Did you still look amazing?”
My wife: “Yes, but definitely not in that dress.”
Me: “Did you still get mad at me?”
My wife (laughing): “yes.”
Me: “You look amazing.”
My wife: “goddammit. I’ll just text jill a picture she’ll give me an honest answer.”
I promise we have a good relationship, but this is why she almost never asks me these questions anymore. However, she will show me pictures of things she’s thinking about buying and ask “would I look cute in this?” to which I answer very honestly and she doesn’t get upset.
“Bitch you look like a walrus.”
No. Because it either doesn’t, or she’s already fat, and it’s not the clothes. Either way, no.
Actual exchange with former girlfriend:
Her: Does this make me look fat?
Me: No.
Her: Would you tell me if it did?
Me: No. That’s what your sister is for.
The best answer is always the truth, but always with kindness
The clothes? No.
It would probably look better on your sister tbh
“For the hundredth time Bethany, I’m blind.”
This ain’t the 90s
“How does it make you feel? Cause I could tell you that you look great in it (and you do), but if you aren’t feeling it it doesn’t matter what I or anyone else thinks.”
“There is literally nothing you could be wearing in this moment that I wouldn’t prefer to see wadded up on the floor tomorrow morning, after I fuck whatever self-loathing and doubt that brought you to ask that question out of you.”
i 100% want the truth. if i look fat, tell me. if i don’t, tell me. sometimes it may change what i wear but not always
“Hell yeah, bring that juicy-ness over here!”
Just tell them they are beautiful. Any other answer is going to get you in a mess you don’t want to be in.
I always say I think you look fine but how do you think you look/feel??? That’s more important anyway
If she looks good: “no that dress makes you look great”
If she looks bad: “babe you look amazing but that [article of clothing] doesn’t flatter you”
If a girl is asking if she looks fat in something lying won’t help her because she will see others staring. Instead build enough emotional capital with your woman that she trusts you when you say no she believes you
“No, your fat makes you look fat.”… I’m recently single.
My husband says, “you don’t, but I don’t think you’d be happy with how you look in it.”
“Damn right you do!” Then bury your face in her ass and make gnarling noises.
Something along the lines of It’s not the most flattering style for your shape. If she doesn’t look great in it.
If she looks good in it then anything less then ‘You look amazing’ will probably result in more outfit changes.
NEVER EVER tell her she looks ‘fine’.
The one she wants to hear would probably be the best answer. My best one was when a girl asked me if her ass was fat and i just kinda started singing a alternative version of Ice ice baby. It was more like ass ass angel. Lol it was an acceptable answer so it was a win for me.
No. But it does make you look like your mother.
“Don’t you mean fatter?”
“Show me your butthole” she will forget about her question and there is a small chance you will see starfish
Don’t even look at her, just say no as a reflex. As Ross Geller said.
Is my dick the biggest dick you’ve ever had?
No. Your fat makes you look fat.