#ExFiles: Can you remember the best thing about your ex? 🤔 Were they a great cook, amazing in bed, or just had a killer sense of humor? Share your favorite memories and let’s reminisce together! 💭💔 #RememberingTheGoodTimes
I’m asking this question because I believe it’s important to reflect on past relationships and cherish the positive moments, despite how things may have ended. Plus, it’s always fun to look back on the good times and share stories with others. Share your thoughts and feelings below! 🥰
Have you ever wondered what other people loved most about their exes? Take the poll below to see what others have to say, and don’t forget to add your own answer! Let’s keep the conversation going and connect through shared experiences. 💬✨
So, what was the best thing about your ex? Let’s dive into some nostalgia and share our favorite memories! 💕 #RelationshipRewind
He’s a man with integrity, respect and dignity. I like those qualities very much.
He is so good looking! And a great kisser. Sadly he is too honest and told me he wouldn’t be able to be faithful lol
Sex
He was an asshole but his humour, vibe and energy that matched mine was why I liked him at the time lol
The sex. It was insane like our bodies were made for each other
No one is a more loving, caring and compassionate father than my ex-husband. On this, our first Mother’s day apart, he picked up me and my daughter at my condo and took us to a delightful brunch.
Despite our differences he’s a good person through and through.
Nothing. Why he’s my ex. Sometimes you are with someone and realize you made a very bad choice. Lol
When I didint knew she existed.
He had a very sweet, fluffy and friendly cat
Miaow 🐱
He’s really fun to be around. Which is why we remain friends.
Lying. He lied so hard he himself believed it. Made me feel like I was in the sky at the moment
-We shared same humour which is rarely for me
-He is very kind to others
-He is funny
-He is a loving person
-He is ambitious
A lot of other things and yes, I’m still in love with him
He was extroverted. I could take him anywhere or introduce him to new people, and he’d get along just fine, I never had to worry about him having a good time.
the best thing about my ex was the sex was off the charts. i took sex off the table just to see if we really even had a connection and we didn’t so we broke up
I (45f) have two exes:
Ex husband is a dedicated father.
Ex bf is consistently emotionally available.
I don’t want any more children, but would love to see my current partner become more emotionally available. He is working on it with a therapist.
The best thing about my ex, is that he’s my ex, and I don’t have to talk to or see him ever again.
The dating experience. I now know what I want out of a relationship, how to be a better partner, and what I don’t want out of a partner. He also cheated on me, and we were a very on and off again couple, so now I know how to and how not to handle a break up. I did a shit job than but now I’m a pro. My ex and I are opposites, so I really don’t know why we dated.
He was my best friend. We shared the same sense of humor. I loved listening to him talk about mythology and history, especially when we were traveling together. We were adventurous but also loved being lazy and cosy together at home. Being with him felt safe, like it was meant to be. Two puzzle pieces that just clicked.
He left me after 16 years in a way that I cannot forgive, but I will always cherish the time when he made me happy.
He’s far away from me!
Incredibly smart and hardworking. He was like sunshine…Wherever he went, ppl smiled. Very helpful, joyful and bright. A very good friend and a great person over all.
The genuine love between us that has stayed constant throughout all these years.. The way he lit up every room he entered. ALWAYS kept me safe. The sense of home I felt in his presence. His sense of humor. The list goes on❤️
Unfortunately, the sex….. it’s been 11 months since our break up & still thinking about it ☹️
My ex was actually so nice. He was kind, funny, and heard me out all the time. He also respected my boundaries. I ended things after 3 weeks or so because I wasn’t attracted to him in that way but now we are back to being really good friends and he still is all of the above. I just wasn’t attracted to him that way.
He was really stable- financially and in terms of predictability. He also had a big heart for kids.
He was really good with people. I was an introvert, he was the one who understood that quick.
He thought I was really hot and always looked at me like he had genuinely won the lottery. But we weren’t meant to be, and my current partner also treats me that way. I’m much happier now.
Ehh not much. The only thing I can say is we were semi long distance (over an hour apart while both in school full time and working), and we never fought at all when we’re together in person. He also messaged me out of the blue years after we’d broken up to say that I had been a good girlfriend. Yeah, I know, and too little too late- but still nice of him I guess.
3 Exes:
1 (High School): Our humor styles were very compatible and we just clicked, personality-wise. Not long term compatible, but we’ve remained friends over the years.
2 (HS/College): Echoing another user – that I never have to see him again, but I will say I learned what I *didn’t* want in a relationship and became more fearless out of response of never going back to who I was when I was with him.
3 (College): He was sweet, funny, a nerd. He gave me the idea of what I was ultimately looking for, even if it wasn’t quite him.
That he’s now in my past. He was abusive and toxic and I hope he’s alone and not hurting anyone else right now.
I love his bold personality and how unafraid he is to be himself. He made me feel really good about myself and knew exactly how to respond to me when I was struggling with my mental health. He was a really great boyfriend we just wouldn’t have worked out in the long run because of differing values and life goals
Last ex: He was cute and cooked for me
Last last ex: He was also cute and very gentlemen then crazy passionate in bed
He always came up with this silly and funny takes about nearly everything. Always made me laugh.
All my exes are wonderful humans. Otherwise, I’d have never dated them.
he’s a POS by all means but he was hilarious and made the corniest jokes i also loved laying next to him all the time was good kisser and the sex was amazing i truly loved that man
She looked good naked but that’s about it.
He was super sweet, kind, and so romantic. He just knew what to say to get the butterflies in my stomach going. He was also very confident and really enjoyed that about him.
He genuinely loved me and I him. Never had that experience with anyone else before. It was nice to know that someone actually loved you and cared. It was a hard break up
I’ll give you my 3 big exes.
* High School Ex: was exceedingly kind and incredibly smart but in a way that wasn’t show boaty. I always remember him lending a helping hand to people who were struggling in classes and was really generous with his time. We’ve kept in touch over the years and he’s gone on to do some really incredible things and that same generous spirit is still a constant.
* University Ex: playful and adventurous. Was always down to try something new and was a good sport even if it wasn’t something they were particularly interested in doing.
* Mid Twenties Ex: … this one is tough cause he really wasn’t super nice to me upon reflection but I guess I’ll say that it was nice that he had unconventional hobbies he was wanting to share with me. Do I care about warhammer? No. But it was interesting to learn about it and how it brought him, his brother and his dad together when his parents separated.
3 Exes
1: Really generous
2. The Life of the Party! He was smart, good looking, had so much style and was a passionate Lover. Unvortunatly he was a manchild who didnt took responsibility for anything or anyone.
3. Beautiful Piano player, very smart
My ex was a phenomenal gift giver. Not just to me, to everyone in his life.
He wasn’t always a good person, but his ability to see into your life and know the perfect thing you’d want was uncanny.
Funny, fun, generous (unfortunately also had another side that was AFWUL).
Him eating me out
he truly was a POS, but he never told me a lie. He would be hurtful with the truth yes, but it was ALWAYS the truth. I can’t recall a single lie he ever told me to be honest in 5 1/2 years. That just wasn’t him.
He was kind, thoughtful and considerate