#TextConvos #ConversationTips #EnjoyTexting
Have you ever been so engrossed in a conversation over text that you completely lost track of time? There’s something special about connecting with someone you like strictly through messaging. Whether it’s a friend, a crush, or a significant other, a great text conversation can be just as fulfilling as in-person communication. So, what makes you enjoy a conversation with someone you like strictly over text?
In this article, we’ll delve into the art of engaging text conversations, exploring the factors that make them enjoyable and how you can make the most of your digital interactions.
##Why Text Conversations Are Enjoyable
Text conversations have a unique appeal that makes them enjoyable for many. Here are some reasons why people find texting with someone they like so satisfying:
###Convenience
One of the primary reasons text conversations are enjoyable is the convenience they offer. You can engage in a meaningful exchange of thoughts and ideas without the constraints of time or physical proximity. Whether you’re at work, on the go, or lounging at home, you can connect with your favorite person at any time.
###Emojis and GIFs
Text conversations often feature a generous use of emojis and GIFs, adding a layer of expressiveness that may not always be present in face-to-face conversations. Emojis and GIFs can convey emotions and nuances that words alone may struggle to capture.
###Thoughtful Responses
When you’re not speaking in real-time, you have more opportunity to craft thoughtful, well-considered responses. This can lead to deeper and more meaningful discussions, as you have the time to carefully formulate your thoughts and express yourself.
###Reduced Pressure
Text conversations can also be less daunting than in-person or phone conversations, especially for those who may feel anxious or self-conscious in social settings. The absence of immediate responses allows individuals to communicate at their own pace, reducing the pressure to always have something compelling to say.
###Personalized Communication
Text conversations offer the opportunity for highly personalized communication through the use of nicknames, inside jokes, and shared references. This can create a sense of intimacy and connection that is specific to your relationship with the person you’re texting.
##What Makes a Text Conversation Great
Now that we’ve explored why text conversations are enjoyable, let’s discuss what makes a text conversation great:
1. Engaging Content
– A great text conversation is filled with engaging and stimulating content. This could be in the form of shared interests, thought-provoking questions, or funny anecdotes.
2. Active Listening
– Just like any other form of communication, active listening is crucial in text conversations. Taking the time to truly understand what the other person is saying and responding thoughtfully can elevate the conversation.
3. Openness and Honesty
– Great text conversations often involve a level of openness and honesty that can deepen your connection with the other person. Being able to share your thoughts, feelings, and experiences openly can enhance the quality of your text exchanges.
4. Playfulness
– A touch of playfulness can add a sense of fun and lightheartedness to a text conversation. Whether it’s through witty banter or playful teasing, injecting humor into your exchanges can make them more enjoyable.
##Tips for Enjoyable Text Conversations
Lastly, let’s explore some tips for making your text conversations more enjoyable:
###1. Use Humor
Injecting humor into your text conversations can lighten the mood and make them more enjoyable. Share funny stories, send memes, or crack jokes to keep the conversation lively.
###2. Ask Open-Ended Questions
Engage the other person by asking open-ended questions that invite thoughtful responses. This can lead to more meaningful and in-depth conversations.
###3. Share Personal Stories
Sharing personal stories and experiences can create a stronger bond in text conversations. Opening up about your life can encourage the other person to do the same, fostering a deeper connection.
###4. Keep It Balanced
Strive for a balanced conversation where both parties have the opportunity to contribute and share their thoughts. Avoid dominating the conversation or letting it become one-sided.
###5. Respect Boundaries
Respect the other person’s boundaries and be mindful of their communication preferences. If they’re busy or not in the mood for a lengthy conversation, give them space and understanding.
In conclusion, text conversations have a unique charm that many find enjoyable. Understanding the factors that contribute to their appeal and implementing the tips mentioned can help you make the most of your digital interactions. So, the next time you find yourself engrossed in a text conversation with someone you like, remember these tips and enjoy the connection it brings. 📱💬
Exciting and engaging – asking questions, jokes, puns, being kept on your toes/a little unpredictable (i.e. double texting to change the topic or sending something unexpected), fun emojis (personally for me), pics, gifs
Boring – generic small talk, no questions, one word responses (“Haha” “Omg”), thinking “Wyd” is a conversation starter, no humor
For me, I prefer it because
– I can look back at messages
– see the last time we spoke
– talk when I have the time
– really consider what I want to say and articulate it well in a text
– it’s also low maintainence, meaning I can look like crap and not have to FT
– taking the time out to be in a place for a phone call vs me responding wherever I am at, it keeps the convo going and if it dies down it’s ok because I understand they’ll get to it when they are available
I think for friends or people I met, I’m more open to phone calls but those texting things apply a bit more for someone I haven’t met yet dating wise
For me a turn off is when someone I talk to early on wants to do a FT right away because it takes effort to sit and have a date online and I have to go and get ready to put some make up or something at 10pm. I rather not invest until I can screen the person a bit before even going on a real date. Like what do you do, what are you looking for, etc. then if it’s some green flags I’ll be open to a scheduled FT or date.
Text
Exciting — I like also the emojis and I can feel into the text if that makes sense. Low maintainence, can add voice notes
Boring — it’s not the same as person to person interaction or real time talking on the phone
Voice calls
Exciting — hear the voice, take the time out to speak and catch up
Boring — finding the time and place
when we are having multiple conversations going on at once
I’ve been texting a man, who lives on the other side of the planet, for seven years. Even with the time difference, we keep in contact.
We text in good times and in bad, we share knowledge, have fascinating discussions and have many interests in common. Even though we don’t agree on some things, we don’t argue. We joke around a lot. We support each other in so many ways. We send holiday pictures and film to each other or other happy times in our individual lives.
We have never met face to face (and very unlikely), never had video chat or phone call.
If he or I don’t text for a while, we just know either of us needs space.
He is married and his wife knows that we text. There has NEVER been any sexual innuendos, there has never been any kind of intimate or romantic text.
We are the very best of friends ☺️
When they tell me Resident evil is their favourite game that definitely gets my attention
Boring: if they reply super fast and keep on replying over and over and over again without giving me a chance to put my phone down. I get tired super fast.
Sexting, flirting, getting deep into convos, asking spontaneous questions that make you think. Sending cute or funny memes as well. Makes it boring would be long time to reply to mundane small talk questions like how’s your day.. not asking questions back or making convo.
Enjoyable: Making me laugh, interesting content, memes, telling me things about their day in a wry way (personal taste).
Boring: one word answers, generic stuff, saying things they assume I want to hear, kissy shit.
For LTRs I do like the mention of real time events for throwback/memory’s sake. “Remember when we went to that show/had that adventure?😉”
Exciting: Curiosity and wit do it for me.
I have some online friends and I feel like these two qualities is what they have in common. Also setting expectations about consistency of texting early on so both parties are on board.
Boring: “how are yous” and super short, non-engaging replies.
Everyone can do those so you’d want to actually show effort and stand out in some way.
It’s difficult to explain but I really like it when they match my banter and can keep up. I was texting with someone for almost a year. There was not an option of ever meeting but it was so interesting talking to him.
It just clicked somehow..
If the other person does not build on what you say it makes it very difficult to keep texting and keep it interesting. I think it varies quite a lot among different people
It has to be the right kind of texting for me tbh. Otherwise do I like texting people 24/7, not really.
When it flows easily, it helps. Good topics, interests, questions, etc. playful banter, witty sarcasm, quick thinking.
After a while if I fall into a rut of no questions, they just talk about themselves, or the dreaded “ha ha” or “lol” on repeat I’m pretty much over it.
A deep conversation
The tone of the text. Like it’s somehow captivating despite I haven’t seen this person. And because I haven’t seen the person I imagined how they would sound like in my head, which makes them more attractive. It’s akin to why people find others who are masked likely to be more attractive than unmasked.
Anything that excites me, especially gossip lol
Witty banter, humor and keeps up their end of moving the conversation forward.
Dank memes
Word play, fun giphys, creative emoji use, it’s almost like writing a story you can look back on re-read and smile
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‘hey what’s up…’ Never goes anywhere
Roast and banters, thought-provoking questions leading to deep meaningful conversations 🙂
I can’t put this to words really, but with some people the conversation just flows naturally. You know, when it doesn’t feel forced, or like someone is trying to keep it going. In my experience this is extremely rare and a lot of factors need to be right, but when it happens it’s like magic. You are talking with someone you barely know and it’s like you have been friends for ten years.
A mix of deep, funny, roasts, and random messages. I had this friend I used to talk to only thru text and chats and our convo just shows how we really do have the same vibe, humor, and likes. Like I’m talking to a male version of me. If our common friends didn’t make it too awkward for us, we’d still be talking til now. Good ol days.
Boring for me are try hard cold or forced messages. And those who aren’t asking questions back.
I like talking about what’s going on in our lives good and bad, makes me feel special that they can confide in me! I enjoy that we come up with silly jokes that only make sense to us! We learn things together and grow our minds! But at the end of the day it doesn’t matter what we do, I just like listening to them talk and I could listen to them laugh all day every day!
Fuck, alright here we go. I enjoy talking with someone who actually converses, not merely replying. Someone who has the same interest and sense of humor as me. I LOVE LOVE bantering, when they fight back, I’m smiling ear to ear.
I also appreciate it when someone observes the change in my tone. I believe it’s very difficult to do over text so it fascinates me.
When we can talk about the stupidest stuff and still makes sense to the most random deep philosophical questions.
And uh audios? I would replay that shit when they’re offline hahaha