#Attraction #NonSexualAppeal #UnexpectedTurnOns
Hey there! π Let’s talk about those non-sexual things that can make our hearts skip a beat and create an irresistible pull towards someone. It’s truly fascinating how certain traits or actions can spark a deep feeling of attraction, although they might not be traditionally viewed as “sexy”. π
Intellectual Stimulation π§
One non-sexual quality that I find incredibly attractive is intelligence. π‘ Engaging in stimulating conversations with someone who has a curious mind, a thirst for knowledge, and a unique perspective can be incredibly alluring. It’s like a mental dance that keeps you on your toes and ignites a connection based on shared interests and intellectual banter.
Sense of Humor π
Laughter truly is the best medicine, and a great sense of humor can be a major turn-on! Someone who can make you smile, laugh, and see the lighter side of life instantly becomes more appealing. It’s about that special spark that comes from shared jokes, witty comebacks, and a playful banter that creates a genuine connection.
Passion and Drive π
There’s something undeniably attractive about someone who is passionate about their goals, dreams, and pursuits. Whether it’s a creative project, a career path, or a hobby they’re deeply invested in, witnessing someone truly light up when they talk about what they love can be incredibly arousing. It’s all about that drive and determination that fuels their fire and makes them magnetic.
Real-life Examples:
1. Watching someone passionately talk about their favorite book or movie.
2. Sharing a laugh with someone over a funny meme or joke.
3. Seeing someone work diligently towards a goal they’re passionate about.
At the end of the day, attraction goes beyond physical appearances and can be sparked by a myriad of non-sexual qualities that speak to our hearts and minds. So, what about you? What non-sexual thing do you find incredibly attractive or arousing? π«
Remember, it’s all about those unexpected turn-ons that make life and relationships so exciting! β¨ #StayCurious #KeepLaughing
Rock music
“I made you fried rice, honey.”
Women in button down shirts and glasses.
Intelligence and efforts.
Men in suits/formal attireπ£ππ
The clicking sound of a woman’s high heels when she walks.
A speech impediment.
Denim skirts of whatever length
I don’t know why…but I love seeing a woman in a denim skirt
When I ask what beer I should pick up on the way home and she tells me she already got some so I wouldn’t have to stop
Clean nails
My mans hands. Just looking at them.
When you can see some tummy bulge through a tight dress
Humor and Smartness
When a manβs eyes βsweetenβ. Or the slight corner of the mouth smile that men do.
Black nails
Humour, teasing and sarcasm
Unless there’s bad intent behind it I find it so attractive when someone’s able to keep up and goes along with the bantering
Women who put extra emphasis on the H when saying Cool Whip, and women with big noses
Always acting kinda playfully sleepy, not wanting you to go to work and just hang out all day
Women wearing hats
Confidence and posture. If you carry yourself proudly physically and mentally without masking anything or trying to be what you aren’t, it’s a good sign.
Edit; and also poses me a challenge
When my partner fixes things around the house, it turns me on every time
Wetsuits
Often considered unattractive and awkward, I find them incredibly flattering. Way sexier than a bikini or swimsuit.Β
smelling nice, but not overly strong just a subtle hint
Sundresses
Nails. When my wife has her nails done it turns me on so much. Nails arenβt inherently sexual but when hers are done β¦ oh boy
A high ponytail swinging back and forth.
Freckles
A rare butter seared ribeye and crab legs.
Speech quirks like accents, dialects. Women with commanding voices. Someone who takes care of themselves.
Choosing to sit close together.
German accent
Confidence + competence = hot
**EDIT:** Obviously you can’t brag about your abilities because that instantly transforms you from hot to not.
Men with deep/low voices.
When someone is unapologetically themselves, especially if it makes them seem weird, and when they go on and on in detail about something they’re interested in. whether its a subject or a tv show, mega attractive.
an ability to listen and actually care
When guys stretch.
I guess same works for guys when they see a girl stretch.
Story telling skills. Iβm immediately attracted to anyone who can tell a story well.
Watching a man be a good dad or kind to someone for no reason other than being kind
Seeing her wearing my clothes.
βHey, babe. I saw you getting frustrated and youβve been working hard out here, so I made you this and brought some lemonadeβ. That memory is FOREVER BURNED into my brain. I almost fuckin proposed to her for it.
Edit: To quote Bill Burr. βLadies. If you wanna see your guy get emotional, bring him some food he didnβt ask for while heβs working on something. Heβll have to dry his tears with the fuckin bread! Heβll spend years thinking about it occasionallyβ
Watching the wife do the dishes. I don’t know why, and no, I’m not trying to be sexist/funny.
A man driving. A man turning the wheel or putting his hand on the passenger seat to look out the back window to pull out or whatever. π₯΅π₯΅π₯΅π₯΅π₯΅π₯΅π₯΅
Women wearing no make up. Like none at all.
just a guy saying your name π΅βπ« idk why, but just using my name out loud in a sentence will 100% make me blush
massages when i get home from work