Are you facing bullying in school and need advice on how to deal with it? What should I do if I’m being targeted by classmates who are spreading rumors and making hurtful comments? How can I handle a situation where a group of students is ganging up on me and making me feel isolated and unsafe? Should I go back to school after experiencing such traumatic bullying? How do I cope with the anxiety and stress caused by this situation? How can I protect my mental health and well-being in the face of relentless bullying? #bullying #school #mentalhealth #anxiety #highschool #studentlife #support #depression
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Hey, hold on. This sounds brutal, and you definitely don’t deserve any of this. There’s nothing wrong with you.
Hey, now you don’t deserve this. No one deserves this. If the school is that bad, talk to your parents. If your schools are anything like NZs, then there will be a support system in place for this kind of thing. Besides that, there isn’t much you can really do. I would suggest therapy and maybe homeschooling. However, if neither of those are possible, then just stand strong. Know that people care about you. Have hope and be brave.
Maybe stay home for a while and talk to your parents/teachers about it. You have the right to choose whether you want to subject yourself to a toxic environment or not.
If it’s mainly girls who are bullying you, I’d say try to spend more time with guys. They’ll tend to be nicer because they aren’t trying to compete with you.
It’s not karma or anything. Just bad luck.
youve got to tell your parents and teachers and its obv your fault the girl’s a bitch and and probably most other girls just trying to help the bitch girl not knowing shes lying. itll get better just get help
First off, don’t blame yourself. You are very clearly the victim here. This isn’t your fault. Second off, I’d say talk to your parents and then with your parents, talk to the school. What you’ll talk about will depend on how it goes with your parents. Now, in my opinion, I think for now it’ll be best for you to stay at home, since it seems like the bullying isn’t just bullying anymore and is straight up harassment. If everything smooths over, you could go back to school, though it likely wouldn’t be the same. Another option I’d say is to move to a different town (maybe not the town next over), if you can, or be homeschooled. Lastly, I’m so sorry this has happened to you and I hope you’ll find somewhere on this earth to be happy.
DON’T GO IN. Stay away from there. Even if your parents drive you there just walk away from the school and back home. What are they gonna do forcefully put you in? I don’t think so. I struggled to go to school in the past too and that’s what I did. I’m sorry about your situation because oh my god it sounds so horrible.
If leaving this school isnt an option, i think not going to school would worsen the conditions as it gives them more time to make up shit about you and spread it. you need to understand that some people are just plain bitchy and you cant do anything about them, but most are actually decent but just go with the trends. it may sound basic but just try to clear up misunderstandings with some of the seemingly “good” people first, and then go on to adress higher levels of bitches, by talking to parents and then the school administration. This is gonna take time and effort and it won’t be easy to clear up the dirt but i have complete faith in you. You’re worth it and i know you can do it! 🥰 Also, never ever even think of ending it all because you have a mother, imagine what she would have to go through! you need to be responsible and follow your heart.
after the rain comes good weather
You tell your parents and your school. At this point try looking into online school. Sure it sucks that you will not make as many friends but I think your safety is more important here. Also, try looking into therapy perhaps.
Okay remember this is not your fault and the girls are cunt tryna start shit, I’d go to your parents and notify them on what has been goin on, I’d go and notify the school as well it may seem scary to do so but I’m telling you it will be worth it, tell the school that you feel threatened and unsafe by the rumours but I’d first go to your parents and tell them and please try and not cut yourself it may be a thought but don’t, please.
I suggest grabbing an app to record audio and some hidden microphones. Record their verbal abuse, and get a sizable amount of evidence. If you have the resources, try using a hidden camera too. Once you compile enough information on them, you have a considerable advantage over them in terms of appealing to the school system, your parents, or maybe even law enforcement if it gets to that point.
Do your research and stay cognizant
Uhh can someone make a summary I ain’t reading allat
I know it’s probably tiring to hear this, but it bears repeating. You didn’t deserve any of this, nor is it even 0.1% your fault. If you’re not already going to therapy, I strongly recommend it. Talk to your parents, the school, and wait for things to settle down. I wouldn’t go back there until it does, that is, if it even does.
Don’t even think about suicide or self harm. I repeat. Don’t. Even. Think. About. It. Your life is worth living, and you as a person are worth so much more than the amount of abuse you can take, I’m 100% sure of it.
I’m well aware this probably isn’t helping at all, but I genuinely hope you make it out of this. And in the years to come, I can only hope you could look at the trauma as a sign of your strength. That you survived. That you triumphed over it all. I believe in you, and so does everyone in this thread.
If this is the lowest point in your life, you can only go back up.
1. don’t feel like you are the problem, because you are not.
2. Tell parents and school and so on.
3. idk how it is in Australia, but boys are most likely pretty chill and if you ask them, if you could stay with them, because of the problems the other girls are doing, I bet they are not going to say no.
4. Girls don’t usually beat somebody physically up (from my experience), but again I don’t know Australia.
5. Listen to the top comment here, because this is typical the best solution
fly me there i’ll beat them up myself
Sorry you’re going through this, it’s rough as far as I can see.
You’re the victim because that bitch is spreading false rumors about you.
There are several options, you could try and convince them you are lesbian or aroace, you could tell the higher-ups at the school though it sometimes won’t help, you could someone higher-up out of school or even your parents, you could fight back (not recommended), you could try and spread rumours about them (NR), ETC.
Block them on social media if they’re sending shitty stuff to you, and tell your teachers/parents about the bullying
i know it might sound repetitive from other comments but dont resort to hurting yourself please,
tell adults around you for help,
I’d collect evidence of bullying and give them to the principal or sum
pls love ur self :3
Are you sure you didn’t do anything, I can’t think of a reason why they would do this unprovoked
Gotta beat the main girl absolutely senseless
Oh sweetie, hurting yourself is never an option. You’ll be in school for like what (3-4 years, if its high school) and be done with it, you will never see any of those people in your life ever again, they should be irrelevant to you, they’re just jealous nobodies. I’ve been bullied my whole life, and I mean whole life, Since elementary 1st grade all the way to high school and I never had more than 2-3 friends. Now I have plenty of people I talk to that I work with, and I dont even know where my classmates are if theyre alive or not, parents, successfull or not and frankly I do not care. So yeah, you have a whole life in front of you, to do something stupid to yourself for just this is not good. Try to talk to parents and then to school, if things escalate and nothing works, I’d do as other say, since we are in this age and year where evereything is recorded, I’d take a small mic or phone and record every time I anticipate that they would bully me for no reason to have some evidence to back me up.
Yo what’s your snap we gotta be friends now like urgently
Hey man im really, really sorry to hear what you’re going through I can understand the feeling oh wanting to die because well im depressed but in this situation I would have just moved schools if I were you. it would be the smartest option is to leave and go to another school. I’m sorry you have this happen. I honestly wish I could help you in any way or just be a friend
talk to your parents
best decision you could make rn, they can talk to the school and get those mfers punished
Starting off, realize suicide is far from the option considering this isn’t your fault by any means.
Now, try talking to your parents and the school, perhaps convince them to allow you to stay at home for a while and hopefully it just dies down. Maybe even switch schools.
If talking to your parents and the school does not solve the issue, and you don’t feel like swallowing until you get to go to another school, then you might have to take matters into your own hands.
Since you’ve mentioned that even the older girls are starting to get in on it and being beaten is slowly becoming more of a threat, you might have to take matters into your own hands.
Consider carrying a small knife or a pair of brass knuckles (no thicker than a cm, you want them light), and ONLY use it when running is not an option. If you can’t reach your weapon in time or can’t get one, your natural weapons are as follows:
1. The knife edge of your hands
2. Fingers folded at the second joint or knuckle
3. The protruding knuckle of your second finger
4. The heel of your hand
5. Your boot
6. Elbows
7. Knees
8. Teeth
9. Nails
Now, attacking first and hard can be crucial in winning a fight, as no fight is won by defensive action. At any point or any situation, some
vulnerable point on your enemy’s body will be open for attack. Keep in mind that whenever you attack, it can be helpful to scream at the top of your lungs, this is done as it can frighten, confuse or distract your enemy, while also hopefully alerting any passer-bys that might intervene or get someone to do so. When striking, here are the key locations:
Eyes: Use your fingers in a V-shape and attack in gouging motion.
Nose: (Extremely vulnerable) Strike with the knife edge of the hand along the bridge, which will cause breakage, sharp pain, temporary blindness, and if the blow is hard enough, death. Also, deliver a blow with the heel of your hand in an upward motion, this will shove the bone up into the brain causing death.
Adam’s Apple: This spot is usually pretty well protected, but if you get the chance, strike hard with the knife edge of your hand. This should sever the wind-pipe, and then it’s all over in a matter of minutes.
Temple: There is a large artery up here, and if you hit it hard enough, it will cause death. If you manage to knock your enemy down, kick him in the temple with your foot, and he’ll never get up again.
Back of the Neck: A rabbit punch, or blow delivered to the base of the neck can easily break it, but to be safe, it is better to use some heavy blunt object.
Upper lip: A large network of nerves are located here. These nerves are extremely close to the skin. A sharp upward blow can cause extreme pain.
Ears: Coming up from behind an enemy and cupping the hands in a clapping motion over the victims ears can kill them. The vibrations caused from the clapping motion will burst his eardrums, and cause internal bleeding in the brain.
Groin: A VERY vulnerable spot. If left open, get it with your knee, and hard, he’ll buckle over pretty quickly, and the pain only gets worse as time passes.
Kidneys: A large nerve that branches off to the spinal cord comes very close to the skin at the kidneys. A direct blow with the knife edge of your hand can cause death.
Now, beyond just self-defense, you can try teaching them a lesson yourself. Find out where the most influential one lives.
After you find her address, save up for gasoline and polystyrene or styrofoam. You can also get your hands on some forgotten pairs of socks from around your house. You’re gonna use all these to make napalm. Napalm is a weaponized mixture of chemicals designed to create a highly flammable and gelatinous liquid. In this case, the gasoline is the flammable liquid and the polystyrene/styrofoam is the thickening agent. You’re gonna dissolve the latter into the former until no longer possible. This will leave you with a white, thick and sticky liquid. You can pour it in some really cheap glass bottles. You will keep the bottles sealed until you’re ready to use them. Once you get to her house, you’re gonna pop the cap off, shove in a sock or two, light the pair of socks on fire, and throw the bottle through a window. Do this quickly then leave by a route you’ll plan beforehand.
You can also make smoke bombs if you want to. Here’s a recipe for one:
4 parts sugar
6 parts potassium nitrate (Salt Peter), commonly found in fertilizers
Heat this mixture over a LOW flame until it melts, stirring well. Pour it into a future container and, before it solidifies, imbed a few matches into the mixture to use as fuses. About 500g of this stuff will fill up a whole block with thick, white smoke.
You can tell your parents you’re going to a sleepover at a friend’s house. Leave late, come back early (no later then 10, no earlier than 7). Unfortunately, you might have to just wander around the whole night, but it is what it is. Just make sure no one who knows you can see you. I’d advise finding an abandoned building that isn’t easily accessible to the homeless.
Now, disguising yourself is a very important factor. You can use [this](https://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Ninja-Costume) guide on doing so. Ik it sounds funny but it’s actually effective as if caught, you can easily argue it off that dressing as a ninja is far from illegal.
When filling, moving and even throwing the bottles, make sure you’re wearing gloves so as to not leave your fingerprints on them. It’s recommended you wipe them with a damp cloth to wipe off any existing fingerprints.
Best of luck to you
First of all, this is not your fault, and you haven’t done anything wrong. You are the victim here. It sounds like these girls are making up reasons to be horrible for the sake of it, and it’s easy for them to pick on the new kid. Absolute spineless cowards.
I’m 24 now (so officially OLD) but I was bullied as well back in high school – mainly in the locker rooms where no teachers ever went. What I did was to talk to my parents, who in turn contacted my school, and we had a meeting together. The measures they took to stop the bullying could never be traced back to me – my parents really put emphasis on this during the meeting. Sure, not all of the bullying went away, but at least it got good enough for me to go back to school.
If you are able to, and trust them, I’d advise you to talk to your parents first. Maybe they can help you talk to the school. Before any meeting takes place – stay at home where you’re safe. Nobody deserves to be abused at school, whether it be physical or mental.
Also, I’d recommend a counselor or a therapist. My bullying was nowhere near as bad as it is for you right now, but it has still left mental scars that I’m still working on 10 years later. Nip it in the bud so it doesn’t fester.
You got this. 💖
You don’t deserve this maybe tell a teacher or someone you trust and if it gets to out of hand the authorities???
If I was in your situation, I’d ask your parent/ guardian to be homeschooled, if they don’t know what’s going on, tell them. If they then say yes, go and tell the school *everything.* then never go back there again. May as well make their life hell like they have yours.
Someone give me a tldr please
This is the stuff that I imagine when I get anxiety. This sounds horrible, and you really need to talk to someone because their treatment of you is not okay in any way.
Beat her up
I’m not one to usually comment on posts. But you’ve gotta tell someone some trusted adult about all this bro. Anyone that would do anything imo. I don’t really hand out advice sooo. That’s the best I got