#NightTimeDilemma #WhatToDo #HerSafetyFirst
Hey there, friends! So picture this: you’re driving with your significant other at night, and suddenly she tells you to let her out of the car. 🚗💔 Now, what would you do in this situation? It’s a bit of a tricky one, isn’t it?
Imagine being in that spot where you’re not close to her place or yours, but she’s adamant about getting out. How would you handle it? 🤔 Would you try to reason with her, or would you abide by her wishes and let her go?
I’m throwing this scenario out there to spark a discussion on how we handle unexpected moments like this with our loved ones. Let’s share our thoughts and experiences, and maybe we can learn from each other’s perspectives. After all, love and relationships can be a rollercoaster ride, right? 🎢💕
So, tell me, what’s your take on this situation? Vote in the poll below and let’s dive into this together! #RelationshipRealities #CommunicationIsKey #ShareYourStory
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Let her the fuck out bro. I’m not begging some a hole to stick with me if they are asking to be let go. I’m sure the bears will treat her better drizzle drizzle.
Tell her I’ll pull into the next gas station or storefront I can so she’s not standing alone in the dark. Then wait for her to either leave or reconsider.
Let her out of the car, and assume I’m dumped.
Let her out. I’m not catching a charge for false imprisonment or kidnapping.
Stop the car and let her out. I can only engage in that fight so long before I throw the towel in.
Let her out. If she’s prone to letting her emotions supersede her intelligence in that way, you’re better off not having her around. The last thing you want is to get caught up for holding her against her will.
Try to document the interaction like texting or recording and let the woman leave. Not letting her, or obstructing her exit can be a potential kidnapping charge. After that, message her asking if she’s ok then delete her number and let that conflict-creating, emotional woman be some other guys problem. That kind of stuff rarely gets better and drags you down
Let her out. She’s an adult.
Yea, immediately.
She’ll figure a way out to find home.
But most importantly, why argue with her?
Let her out and depending on the area maybe wait around for her ride before just abandoning her. I wouldn’t want to deal with being the last person who saw her alive if shit goes south.
Ask them if they mean right here or at a safe place. If they say right here, I pull over, let them out, and get the fuck out of there. The rearview dashcam is my proof I left them and they were healthy. If they say a safe place, then I take them to my killshack.
You let her out.
It depends. If we’re nowhere near anything I’ll tell her “there’s nothing close. It wouldn’t be safe.”
If she says it again, fuck it, pull over. She’s an adult and can evaluate her safety for herself.
I stop the car, let her get out, and I drive off into the sunset glad that I dodged yet another bullet.
There is a right answer and a legal answer to this question, bearing in mind that morality and legality are not the same. The right thing to do would be to take her somewhere relatively safe. This could be anywhere from the sidewalk where she can call a cab, a friend, a family member, etc, to letting her out next to a police station. However, the legal thing to do (and what I *strongly* advise you to do) is to stop the car and let her out immediately. If you don’t, she can charge you with kidnapping. Just because *you* do the right thing, that doesn’t mean that *she* will. Protect yourself first. She’s a big girl. If you’re in the middle of nowhere and she really wants out *that* badly, stop the car, let her out, and let her find out the hard way when she’s walking 30 miles because she can’t get a cab or an uber to come out that far.
If it is legal to stop and let someone out where you are, do so, if you’re on a highway let her know you’ll drop her at the bottom of the first exit ramp.
Depends how close. If we’re assuming like, 1st date shit, then its the first open business or govt office we see.
Very clearly tell her that it might not be a safe area and ask if she’s sure. If she insists, then let her out.
Unless there is some scenario that doesn’t make me look like a creep, I’m complying.
Calmly tell her that if she wants out, that’s fine, but I will have to find a safe place first. Then, drop her in a parking lot (or whatever), and wait with her until other travel arrangements arrive.
Then, break up with her.
Let her out
record her demanding to be let out and then let her out
Let her out
You stop the car, let her out, then you park and watch what she does. Give her a little time to cool off let her realize she doesn’t want to walk home, then let her back in the car drive her home and leave.
I let her out of the car. She’s an adult and can make her own decisions.
I don t know.. one of those things I could say what I d do but not really sure.. If she breaking up with me nd I mad at her . Still have to make sure she got home safe. If we in middle ofknow were. Mybe she d call soemone for ride .At very lest I d sit and wait for her ride . Don t think I could leave here in middle of no where . If she out with me she y responsibility till home safe
Let her out and hit the save button on my dashcam in case she tries to manipulate the situation against me later
Let her out. I’d drive up half a block to a hundred feet or so depending on the area. Keep her in the rearview mirror. Wait and see. If she comes to the car, let her in and drop her off at her place. Let her know that we’re done at drop-off. She wanders off, well, she’s an adult. Maybe call the police if it’s out in the boonies. Otherwise, she can figure her shit out. Her number is going on the block list regardless.
Where I live this would be incredibly dangerous. I wouldn’t let her out.
What, you want to have to listen to her bullcrap all the way on a car ride home? I see this as a Win/win–she wants to get out you don’t get trapped in an argument you’re going to lose anyways.
She’s an adult and I’m not a prison guard. I’d first remind her that it’s a long walk, but if she insisted, I’d let her out.
Potential scenarios include “get yelled at for not begging her to stay, or threat of kidnapping if our desire to not dump them in an unsecured location is met with hostility.
That’s tough. I would insist that I at least drop them off at a safer location. Like the town with access to uber or the bus. I’d be worried something would happen, or the trip would only fuel their anger for having to walk the distance she demanded she take.
On the other hand, if I don’t want to let her out, she may have a tantrum and threaten to call the police for kidnapping. Now if I don’t know the person that well, so they have a genuine fear of that, it’s more reasonable. I’d at least want to park nearby, or if they’re waiting for a ride, to just sit in silence together so she’s not freezing or in danger until her ride arrives.
She didn’t ask to get out, we were in a parking lot of a grocery store and she just got out. I stopped the car and told her that if she wasn’t breaking up with me, this wasn’t how people in a relationship dealt with confict. We needed to talk about it. She got back in the car, we talked for an hour and worked through it. We’ve been married for 41 years.
If it were someone I’m dating I’d let her out.
But I’ve been married 20 years and if this happened, I suppose if she was completely serious, I’d probably get out and let her have the car.
Let her out, park your car like twenty meters away and observe if she isn’t doing anything too stupid.
Also, you absolutely have to have a dash cam which records audio as well. If not, consider yourself jailed for sexual assault the moment you let her out.
Drop her off somewhere safe at least. Gas station or grocery store.
But never let her out in some sketchy ass place. That’s how people get themselves in trouble.
That’s the “Let me out but if you drive away you lose” game.
You=me. I’m not preaching.
You have to let her out. You can’t kidnap her. But you don’t have to leave. Stay there or stay close. That’s a bad way to let shit go down. Be mad later. Only an asshole leaves them stranded (speaking from experience, as I have. And I never did again but I’ve been in this spot a few times.). Pull up and park, run over to her and say the same thing. “Look, this is nuts, be mad later, please let me take you somewhere or you can even take the car and you can drop me somewhere.”
Kill each other in the morning. Don’t let someone else kill her before you can. lol..
Drive her to the woods so a bear can help her home
> demanding to let her out of the car as a manipulation tactic
Apparently this is a thing? Neat, I didn’t know. My wife has never tried it. My autistic ass would have said “okay,” dropped her off, and left, assuming that she felt so unsafe in my car that she never wanted to see me again.
Try to persuade her to at least be dropped off somewhere safe, so she can get an Uber.