🤔 #GirlfriendQualities #BoredomAlert
Hey there! Have you ever found yourself dating a girl and realizing you’re just not feeling it anymore? If so, I’m curious – what qualities or traits do you find boring in a girlfriend? Is it when she talks too much about herself and never asks about you? Or maybe when she’s constantly glued to her phone, ignoring you completely? Let’s dig into this together and uncover what makes a girlfriend a snooze fest! Share your thoughts in the comments below, I can’t wait to hear your stories and insights! 🔍💭💬
I crave a boring girlfriend.
I’m in bed by 9:30. I never go out. I want someone who’ll sit and watch sunsets with me while eating homemade pasta. I don’t want a girlfriend who parties, gets drunk, or goes out on the town much.
I suppose to me, “boring” would be a lack of any interests of passions. No motivation at all. That would be boring.
Generic interests. I swear all the girls I’ve talked to liked hiking but have never actually hiked anywhere.
I tried dating a wooden plank once and we just didn’t have anything to talk about
When she never takes the initiative for anything.
Eventually, I get bored.
Monologuing. If we’re going to have a productive conversation then all right, but if she’s just going to ramble on about trivial crap or vent excessively then I’m out.
Also, rigidity. Everything does not always have to be planned out ahead of time. Spontaneity can be a good thing.
When she’s waiting for me to start up every conversation.
When all she wants to do is stay home.
I work with a girl like this. The only time she ever wants to spend time with me is at church. Even when I suggest we go out and grab a bite to eat and hang out, it’s always a no.
I love God but I like to spend time doing other things too.
Definitely the “I’m not like other girls” persona, then proceeds to only talk about mainstream pop culture. If you’re going to differentiate yourself, then have something different to talk about or do! Diversity in interests is so attractive tell me you’re into stargazing, collecting antique coins, or that you’re secretly a chess grandmaster. Something to shake up the monotony!
Tik tok bot, a follower of super popular trends. “Helen Keller isnt real” “hauls” “yas queen peroid”
So I’m big into sci-fi, fantasy, comic conventions, stuff like that. Matched online with a woman who said she was a big nerd who loved books. Turns out she meant she liked one book she read when she was a kid, and she thought she was a big nerd because she liked cleaning her apartment. 😐
A lack of natural curiosity about the world.
Ones that have no hobbies and think that once you’re in a relationship they are entitled to 100% of your time
Don’t have much to converse on other than work and people problems.
Girls who lack curiosity are lame as hell.
Lack of interests, expects to be entertained, starfishing
When she wants to do something but has no suggestions.
Or the suggestions she has are categories with no specific things. For example “let’s go to a museum… Okay which one… I don’t know”
Cares about Instagram photos more then herself
being super generic and basic. I use dating apps pretty religiously and i swear, if i had a dollar for every girl that liked country music, dogs, being outside, and want to go skydiving someday… its when girls stand out more and arent clones that we start to get somewhere
Had one date talk constantly about Botox and plastic surgery she wanted to get. At age 37. And she looked great. Did not want to talk about that or deal with all that down the line
indecisive. it’s not only boring it’s tiring.
Wow, reading these comments and I realize, I’m boring.
I find people who can’t talk about hypothetical things boring. Asking hypothetical questions is like multiplayer daydreaming sometimes. Who would win between a T-Rex with a jetpack and a dragon who can’t breathe fire? I don’t know, but it’s fun to think about even if it’s not practical. Folks who can’t conjure up any answer tend to get annoyed with me and vise versa. My good friends like to answer hypothetical questions and my best friends ask me crazy questions in return.
She could never make a decision about anything and wanted me to always pick whatever it was. Holidays, food etc.
Another thing was deeply personal but we need to have some of the same hobbies or something. If all you can talk about is work, then its doomed.
Being overly dependent.
I can’t stand girls who think that just because they’re in a relationship, they can just turn their brain off and make you do all the decision making and problem solving. Even for the simplest things.
Like, I’m in a relationship with a grown capable adult or am I raising a child?
Lack of commitment to self development.
Being negative. Always complaining.
Only watches ~6 things over and over.
No strong opinions or ideas about anything.
Doesn’t get jokes on a conceptual level.
Eats the same shit and hates going anywhere new.
No hobbies, didn’t read, didn’t want to do anything when I proposed it, then complained we never did anything. She could suck a golf ball through a hose but was boring as shit. Didn’t last long