“Why are men on Hinge calling women ‘mommy’ so often? Any thoughts on this trend, 30F and curious! #dating #Hinge #mommy #trend #relationships”
The Mommy Trend on Hinge
Are you finding men calling you “mommy” on Hinge? Wondering why this is happening and what it means? Let’s dive into this curious dating trend together!
Why are Men Using the Term “Mommy”?
– Is it a term of endearment or a red flag?
– Exploring the psychology behind this trend
– How societal norms and pop culture influence language on dating apps
30F Perspective
– Insights from a 30-year-old woman navigating the dating scene
– Sharing personal experiences with the “mommy” phenomenon on Hinge
– Thoughts on setting boundaries and communicating preferences
Join the conversation about dating dynamics and linguistic trends on Hinge! Let’s unpack the “mommy” label and its implications together. #dating #linguistictrends #women #conversation #trendingtopics
How old are these guys? If they’re 18-22 or so, probably a kink.
Porn addicts
It’s a name often used by men who are into either dominant or simply confident women. They like women (usually older or taller) that give off either motherly or dominant vibes. It’s a term of endearment I assure you.
Sounds weird. Never had the urge to call any woman that, even ones in their 30s.
It’s a kink and a relationship dynamic, and they are hoping that you will respond positively to them calling you ‘mommy’ in hopes that they can move toward that dynamic quickly. While it can exist as just a sexual kink that doesn’t leave the bedroom, using it early on suggests that they’re also looking for someone who wants a certain kind of relationship.
That relationship dynamic being where the woman has most of the dominance and decision making authority, but with a more nurturing attitude than you would get from, say, a domme, while the man feels minimal pressure to take charge and generally reduced responsibility in the relationship apart from being compliant.
Because the world is in crisis and parental mommy/daddy figures signify stability
I thought this was a Hispanic thing. Papi y Mami
It’s a meme. https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/mommy-sorry-mommy
Now calling women you find attractive “mommy” is just an extension of the meme.
If you’re tall or muscular it’s regularly used to refer to a dominant woman. Not so much a kink but more of a newish term of flattery
Do you have big boobs?
If you have bigger than average breasts that’s your answer
Also related to a voluptuous figure. Big boobs?
They’re unHINGEd hahaha haha..
Why do women call their boyfriends “daddy”? That comes off really creepy to me.
They’re chronically online
Haven’t heard this one. Certainly none of my guy friends have admitted anything like this to me, but I’m old, in my 40s. But the last woman I dated was a bit younger than my usual (29) and she called me “Daddy” in bed. It was a bit odd, but it didn’t put me off, just surprising. I think some of these generational differences are pretty interesting.
Firstly, it is *absolutely* an affectionate thing to be called.
But in my opinion… It’s kinda like those 18 year olds that classify hair pulling as ‘kinky.’
It’s a cringe term that (primarily younger) guys use as a way to describe an older woman that they’re attracted to. There’s also usually some kind of physical trait associated with it, be it more than average height for a woman, muscle mass because she hits the gym, etc. A woman may also be called “dommy mommy” if her aesthetic and style is of the Gothic variety.
If you’re into what is supposed to be a playful, cute nickname / pet name, take your shot. But that’s more in the vein of like 15 – 25 year old kids that don’t actually have experience talking to women. The undeveloped prefrontal cortex crowd, who generally jumps on trends. If you have your shit together, they are generally a burden because they haven’t grown up enough and they do not have their shit together.
[Rhea Ripley](https://www.instagram.com/p/C5L690kuFQe/?igsh=MWszNWdjZG5rdjQ4OA==) from the WWE is currently the biggest star on the planet that gets called this, and it’s not even partially debatable. It’s part of her gimmick. And, yes, she is very attractive, but I, personally, could never make myself utter that to anyone.
It’s a kink, even with older men.
For many men, “mommy” was the only woman that they truly were comfortable enough with, to be subservient to.
I fully expect to be bashed, and downvoted for this comment, but I am a professional Domme, and I see this all the time.
Short answer, they want you to peg them.
I’m a father. My kid calls me dad or daddy. I don’t want my wife to call me that in bed, would be feckin weird
Am I doing hinge wrong? Would never occur to me to bring that kinda stuff up while still on hingle
Thirsty fuckers
Honestly, I’m a 20 y/o dude and I’m attracted to women in their 30’s and 40’s. Idk if it’s a kink thing or i just prefer older women
Dudes are weird. I don’t even call my mom that.
It’s 100% a kink.
Idk jeans. Maybe you’re a cool mommy. 🎸🎸🎸
Whenever I open this app, this sub comes up first, and always with a question about relationships that makes me yearn for the apocalypse.
They’re gross and pathetic.
its a kink term being used playfully.