#SchoolTrip #Sleepover #GirlsOnly #ShowerSafely
Hey there, fellow girl! 👋 I totally get where you’re coming from. Going on a school trip and sharing a hotel room with other girls can be a bit nerve-wracking, especially when it comes to showering and changing clothes. But don’t worry, I’ve got some tips and advice to help you navigate this situation comfortably. Let’s dive in!
Understanding Your Feelings
It’s completely normal to feel uncomfortable about seeing other girls naked, especially if you’re still figuring out your own feelings and identity. It’s okay to have these emotions, and you’re not alone in this. Here are a few things to consider:
1. Exploring Your Bi Identity: It’s totally okay if you’ve recently discovered that you’re bi. This can definitely impact how you feel about seeing other girls naked. Embracing your sexuality is a journey, and it’s okay to take your time with it.
2. Avoiding Pornography: If you’re feeling sensitive about seeing nudity, it might be due to your personal feelings about pornography. It’s okay to feel uncomfortable with it, and everyone has their own boundaries when it comes to this topic.
Communicating with Your Friends
When your friends ask why you’re avoiding seeing them naked, it’s important to communicate openly and honestly with them. Here are some helpful talking points:
1. Explaining Your Bi Identity: Let your friends know that discovering your bisexuality has brought up new feelings and emotions. It’s okay to tell them that you’re still figuring things out and need their understanding and support.
2. Addressing Your Sensitivities: If you’re uncomfortable with seeing nudity due to your feelings about pornography or personal boundaries, it’s important to express this to your friends. Let them know that it’s not about them, but more about your own comfort level.
Setting Boundaries
It’s important to establish boundaries that make you feel safe and respected. Here’s how you can do this:
1. Privacy during Changing and Showering: Communicate with your friends about your need for privacy during changing and showering. You can coordinate times or use individual stalls to ensure everyone feels comfortable.
2. Respect for Personal Space: Emphasize the importance of respecting each other’s personal space and boundaries. This creates a supportive and understanding environment for everyone.
Seeking Support
If you’re still feeling uncertain or uncomfortable about the situation, consider seeking support from a trusted adult, counselor, or LGBTQ+ support group. It’s okay to reach out for guidance and reassurance during this time.
Remember, it’s okay to feel the way you do, and you have the right to prioritize your comfort and well-being. Being open and honest with your friends about your feelings is the key to creating a safe and supportive environment for everyone on the trip.
You’ve got this, girl! Enjoy your school trip, and remember that it’s okay to take things at your own pace. Have fun and stay safe! 💕 #Empowerment #SelfCare #RespectfulBoundaries #ComfortZone
I don’t know how to respond to this
Just say you have boundaries and need some privacy
Close your eyes
Just don’t look g
“My religion doesn’t allow it”
Always have ur phone in the hand with camera on then I don’t think they would change in front of you.
womp womp
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did i just read
i did not read allat but just look away and ask to change in a toilet stall.
Just say FUCK OFF to them. Or enjoy it a bit relax you can do whatever in your thoughts and no one would know
Not wanting to see others naked and vice-versa is completely normal, regardless of your sexuality. Just say that seeing people naked is just something that wasn’t normalized in your family, and therefore, you feel uncomfortable doing so. You simply find it weird and don’t want to do it—that’s completely normal, and I’m the same.
Just say you’re not comfortable with it, you don’t need an excuse for it, ask them not to interrupt you when you’re changing, and just go to idk a bathroom or something while they change
uhh I dont know
I feel the same way around anyone tbh. It’s perfectly normal.
I like dinosaurs 🦕🦖
If you don’t mind the question then why are you pornphobic?
and i feel there’s some weird disconnect here
do you dislike seeing nude people or do you dislike seeing nude people in porn
Then dont look at them??
I don’t believe they’re all gonna agree to have everyone see them naked and shower together, honestly. Unless you’re in a really small class and everyone is friends with everyone, that’s gonna be a little more of a problem. But any “normal size class”, there will be other girls wanting privacy and that will ask to not see the others naked for the same reason as you. There will just be a way to fix things, you can talk about it with an adult, and they can gather you with the other girls and you can talk about the issue. You can also organise some sort of planning where each has a turn in the bathroom or an isolated room to change, wash and do all the necessities. There’s always a way to work things out, just talk about it with adults.
And if it’s a small class of people that know eachother very well, the same can work out just fine, even if you have only one room for everyone. I’m the only guy in a class of 6, I’ve been through that, it’s not a problem at all. It’s actually easier because you know these people and you can talk more freely about the issue, and everyone can coordinate to find a solution easier.
Thank you for giving me a word to describe me to my friends “pornophobic”
“but you can see us naked”
easy response: “no I can’t.”
I’d die to go on a field trip my school has not gone in 4 years
bro none of the girls there wanna shower together, so I don’t really understand how this will be a problem in the first place. seeing strangers of the same gender naked isn’t something normalised or considered acceptable by anyone. no one wants to see your genitals or have theirs seen by others.
hey as someone who goes on school trips with other girls its not typical for girls of that age to walk around naked. unless youre like, mormons or something, itll be totally okay. you dont even have to bring it up
As a bisexual girl, I have the exact problem I don’t like to be around all groups of girls my age It makes me feel uncomfortable especially in changing women’s rooms. But the best thing to do is maybe go in the bathroom when they are changing or use the hotel restroom to change. This is easier said than done but try not to care what they think. Being bi is sometimes hard but it’s who you are.
Dawg u a bitch fr just deal w it not that big of a deal
Pornophobia is not a thing. Don’t watch shit that makes you uncomfortable. That’s not a disorder, it’s logical.
I personally don’t like watching surgical procedures. It’s not a flaw, it’s gross so I don’t watch it. Not everything means you’re somehow broken.
Understandable, guys don’t like seeing other guys dongs.
You run into the same problem I have in marching band, besides that I’m not bi and I nearly get completely naked. It makes me feel really fucking gay that I have to change out of my comfy clothes and get nearly naked around 15 dudes to get into uniform, so I get it. I suggest try to just stay away from the group when it comes to that stuff so you don’t have to see it.
I was on class trip but I never saw my homies naked nor did they see me naked. It is normal and I don’t think you need to justify it.
just ask for some privacy, im sure when they all do their business you can just go to the bathroom and change and shower alone.
Are you sure you don’t watch porn? Cuz they aren’t even gonna pay attention to you. They aren’t looking at eachother or you. They’re not gonna read your mind. And if you don’t look at their naked bodies they aren’t gonna force you to.
You think with a porn addict mind bro
Im a girl and also going on a school trip similar to this and have been on trips like this. Just state your boundaries clear and center, most girls who have some form of decency will respect your wishes and if they don’t, tell a teacher. It may be embarrassing but if a girl does walk in on you intentionally or flash you or show you porn, you need to tell a teacher. I hope this helps.
You do realize most people aren’t getting butt booty naked in front of other people when a bathroom exists right
I sure HOPE it’s NOT completely normal. I’m bisexual, was born a boy, and do NOT want to see other guys naked. Like, at all. The name of my existence. I also don’t wanna see girls naked. I highly doubt any of them want to see eachother naked also.
just tell them you’re not down to see eachother naked and get that sweet sweet privacy