#BlowjobWoes #LowSexDrive #RelationshipAdvice
🍆💦 Feeling a little disconnected in the bedroom lately? Wondering why you can’t seem to get in the mood to give blowjobs anymore? You’re not alone! Many couples go through phases where their sex drive takes a dip, and it’s totally normal. But if you’re feeling frustrated and unsure of what’s going on, don’t worry – I’ve got some tips to help you navigate this challenging time.
## Understanding the Issue
### 1. Communication Is Key
The first step in addressing any problem in a relationship is to talk about it openly and honestly. Have a candid conversation with your partner about how you’re feeling and what’s been going on in your mind. It’s possible that there are underlying issues that need to be addressed before you can fully enjoy intimacy again.
### 2. Explore the Root Cause
Take some time to reflect on what might be causing your lack of interest in giving blowjobs. Are you feeling stressed, overwhelmed, or disconnected from your partner? Understanding the root cause of the issue can help you find a solution more effectively.
## Tips for Rekindling Your Desire
### 1. Prioritize Self-Care
Sometimes, a low sex drive can be a result of not taking care of yourself properly. Make sure you’re getting enough rest, eating well, and engaging in activities that bring you joy and relaxation. Taking care of yourself is the first step to feeling more connected to your partner.
### 2. Explore New Techniques
If you’re feeling bored or uninspired in the bedroom, it might be time to switch things up. Consider trying out new techniques, positions, or fantasies that excite you and bring back the spark in your sex life.
### 3. Seek Professional Help
If you’re still struggling to get in the mood despite trying different strategies, it might be helpful to seek help from a therapist or counselor who specializes in sexual health. They can provide you with valuable insights and techniques to address the underlying issues contributing to your low sex drive.
## Conclusion
Remember, a dip in your sex drive is not the end of the world – it’s just a bump in the road that you can navigate together with your partner. By prioritizing open communication, self-care, and exploring new ways to reignite the passion in your relationship, you can overcome this challenge and enjoy a fulfilling sex life once again. Don’t be afraid to reach out for help if you need it – you deserve to feel happy and satisfied in your intimate relationship.
Nobody can answer this for you.
People change and things that use to excite us don’t anymore. It’s pretty normal, especially if it’s been the same dick for 12 years. If you’re truly concerned go get blood work done, that might tell you something. If not try therapy. It may be a cognitive issue
Nobody knows this except you. Maybe a psychologist can help.
Libido can ebb and flow but if you feel like it’s a long lasting issue, you may want to pursue a physical and/or mental health approach. Might be a hormone issue or something else. I got long Covid and it tanked my sex drive so I really feel for you, it’s been a bummer for me and my partner.
Because you’re 30. Libido will eventually fall slowly but surely. My fiancee and I used to make love at least 4 times a week. Now it’s down to 1-2. Its normal. Don’t think much about it.
Sounds like you lost your oral fixation that turning you on for giving blowjob’s
You didn’t happen to get a bite of wedding cake did you??
Did you recently get married. I think there is scientific evidence of a correlation between philatio and a wedding band….lol
Just do it ✔️
Possibly lost of attraction to him. Maybe the two of you need a week getaway go on a trip no work no kids no responsibilities. All inclusive trip for two and reconnect.
Did your bf get fat?
I recommend the books “Come as you are” and “come together” – both by Emily Nagoski. You’ve got to look internally first.
you didn’t get married did you?
Did you get married two years ago?