#SingleLife #BedroomPreferences
Hey there! So, I’ve been pondering something lately and I need your insights. Picture this: you meet someone amazing, sparks fly, and they confess that they prefer having a separate bedroom for a good night’s sleep. 🛏️
Now, here’s the twist – they’re all about cuddles, deep conversations, and intimacy while awake, but when it comes to sleep, they just can’t do it in the same bed. Would this be a dealbreaker for you? 🤔
I mean, I get it. We all have our quirks and preferences when it comes to sleep, right? And hey, they’re open to sharing the same bed on special occasions like vacations. So, would you still consider pursuing this relationship? Let’s weigh in on this together.
Drop your thoughts below and let’s get chatting! 💬✨ #Love #Relationships #SleepingArrangements
It wouldnt be ideal but definately not a deal breaker for me. Id love the personal space but id also hate the feeling of still being single at nights. On the other hand that could make for some fun sneaky sleepover role playing situations. Id be open to it i think.
Like a completely separate bedroom or a different bed? I’d be salty if I got relegated to a room under the stairs like Harry Potter, while shes visting snoozeville in the master bedroom
Been married for 30 years. There has never been a single night where I have fallen asleep touching my wife. No sleeping while hand holding, cuddling, etc. We have a king sized bed, so we go to our separate sides when we sleep.
She is the same as me. Doesn’t want us touching while we sleep.
So different beds after getting some romance in would be fine so long as it is essentially every night.
As long as intimacy is still there. I snore. Not going to hold it against someone if they need a break from that for a solid nights sleep.
I am not sleeping in a separate bed. End of story.
I wouldn’t mind, it would be a little weird at times but certainly not a deal breaker.
Dealbreaker. A lot of intimacy happens while laying in bed. Not just sex, but also cuddling and important conversations.
The wife and I already sleep in separate rooms.
The way I snore? Would totally understand.
I wouldn’t love separate bedrooms, I would like to atleast share room, and have separate beds (that’s how my grandparents lived like 30 years, and they were fine) but I guess I would be okay with separate bedrooms, as long there’s still intimacy.
Having lived with a woman that snores like a freight train, having my own bed on the other side of the house saved my mental and physical health, our marriage, and probably prevented me murdering her.
I don’t know if it’s just me being weird, but I’d be more fine with it if they still tried to sleep in the same bed and it just works out better for them to have their own bed than for that to be their expectation going in.
I just don’t like the idea of that kind of distance in a long term relationship.
I didn’t plan on marrying someone who sleeps in a different bed and if I accept that, then that’s just what my life is going to be. Don’t like it.
I am in this situation now. My GF sleeps on my couch. It affects how much sex we have and I do miss cuddles. But I am not a great sleeper and very protective of my sleep so it is a trade off. She needs a TV on to fall asleep and I can’t fall asleep with a TV on
I’d be MORE likely to pursue her because that is also my preference.
I’d prefer it.
Having a place you can retreat to is a way to create a sense of identity, privacy, stability and security… but at the end of the day, you don’t actually have to use it if you don’t want to. Also, when the baseline is “separate,” it makes “together” feel more special. Which in turn makes you less likely to take a situation for granted.
Yes but that’s just me.
I get it. I love the idea of cuddling together as we sleep.
Then I remember I get too hot. And my CPAP mask gets tangled in her hair. And that is before thinking about the need to slide my arm out from under her so I can slip off to the bathroom in the middle of the night,
Then I might be up for pursuing a woman like that if all the rest lines up.
I really, really want someone who wants me. I want to snuggle together and watch a movie. I want to get frisky when she drives me crazy with flirty texts all day while I’m at work. I need a goodbye kiss as we part to go to work. I want random hugs while making dinner.
And if we sleep separately then I can deal with it.
I snore so I’m fine with it. Being woken up 3-4 times a night and told to roll over sucks. Separate bedrooms solves that problem.
My and my fiance live in a two bedroom apartment. Occasionally one of us will sleep in the other room if we’re needing a little alone time. And as top comment says, we’ll sometimes do it for the sneaky sleepover role play thing. Spices things up.
If my partner always wanted to sleep in the other room, it would be a deal breaker.
Wife and I sleep in separate rooms. I snore and she drinks caffeine too late and wiggles a lot. Makes it easier because I go to bed and wake up earlier than her. We are also both pretty warm sleepers so cuddling while sleeping rarely happens.
Not necessarily. If either one or us snored or thrashed around a lot, etc., a separate bed or room wouldn’t be bad.
I’m a super light sleeper so having my own room would be great.
No. Bigger bed, yes
Big time dealbreaker, takes away one of my favorite parts of a relationship.
A good night’s sleep is the foundation for a functional life. Seperate beds seems like a bad thing, but if it’s necessary, it’s not bad at all.
dealbreaker, it would make me feel unloved and lonely i need dem cuddles
Tbh???? That’s the dream. Have your personal space! I’ll have mine! We can have sleepovers.
It would be for me personally.
I wouldn’t mind it, honestly. I’m sort of the same way. I’d appreciate having a space that is mine, and her having a space that is hers. And we can spend the night together whenever we feel like it.
I wouldn’t mind separate bedrooms as long as we still had regular sleepovers. Sometimes I sleep easier by myself as well.
I move a lot in my sleep, and my wife is an extremely light sleeper, so we sleep in two queen size beds pushed up next to each other. Works wonders for us, still close enough we can meet in the middle but if we need space we have it.
Everyones situation is different. You just need to find out what works for you.
Probably a deal breaker for me personally.
Sleepy early morning cuddles and falling asleep with my partners head on my chest are some of my favorite things in life.
For me to give that up someone would have to be like 10/10 perfect.
Possibly, though i think they’d have to really sell the intimacy elsewhere. Personally i sleep better next to someone, to being alone every night essentially would likely weigh on me. That said, i don’t think it’s impossible
So I’m a woman who’s married so not your target audience to get answers from, but my husband and I have been sleeping in separate rooms for a few years now and honestly it’s a game changer. I go to bed earlier and I wake up earlier, I snore, I wake up multiple times a night and disturb him, and I’m also a very light, sensitive sleeper who wakes up way too easily. I have a lot of trouble sleeping with someone even in the same room as me let alone next to me and it means absolutely nothing towards my husband – it’s all me. He prefers sleeping alone too. Works amazing for us, but not for everyone. I used to think couples HAD to sleep in the same bed every night, but then I realized, hell with tradition and do what works for your relationship.
Not at all. Separate bedrooms are a fantastic idea, and really should be normalized. No matter how much we love a partner, a human being needs a small space that is completely their own.
>sex while awake
Yeah, that’s definitely the best kind of sex.