#AcneScars #DatingWithAcneScars #Insecurities #SelfEsteem
Are acne scars such a dealbreaker? Would you date someone who has them? These are questions that many individuals with acne scars often ask themselves. The journey of dealing with acne can be long and frustrating, and the lasting scars left behind can impact one’s self-esteem and confidence. But does that mean finding love and companionship is out of reach for those with acne scars? Let’s delve into this topic and explore it further.
##Understanding Acne Scars
Before we dive into the dating aspect of acne scars, it’s important to understand what acne scars are and how they develop. Acne scars are the result of inflamed blemishes caused by clogged pores. When the pore swells with excess oil, bacteria, and dead skin cells, it can rupture and damage the skin tissue. The body then attempts to repair this damage by forming new collagen fibers, resulting in different types of acne scars such as pitted scars, rolling scars, or boxcar scars.
##The Impact of Acne Scars on Self-Esteem
For many individuals, acne scars can significantly impact their self-esteem and confidence. The constant battle with acne and the resulting scars can lead to feelings of insecurity and self-consciousness. It’s not uncommon for people with acne scars to avoid social situations, dating, or even looking in the mirror. The emotional toll of living with acne scars should not be underestimated.
##Dating with Acne Scars
So, back to the question at hand – would you date someone with severe acne scars? The answer ultimately lies in individual preferences and attitudes towards physical appearance. While some people may view acne scars as a dealbreaker, others may see beyond physical imperfections and value the person for who they are on a deeper level. Here are some points to consider when it comes to dating with acne scars:
1. **Self-Confidence:** Confidence is key when it comes to dating with acne scars. While it’s natural to feel insecure about your appearance, embracing your scars and accepting them as a part of who you are can be empowering. Confidence is attractive and exudes self-assurance to potential partners.
2. **Communication:** If you’re nervous about how your acne scars may be perceived by others, open communication is essential. Being honest and upfront about your insecurities can help set the tone for understanding and acceptance. Remember, everyone has their own insecurities, and being vulnerable can create a deeper connection with others.
3. **Focus on Inner Qualities:** While physical attraction is important in a romantic relationship, it’s crucial to remember that beauty is not skin deep. Focus on showcasing your inner qualities such as kindness, humor, intelligence, and compassion. A genuine connection based on shared values and interests can transcend physical appearance.
4. **Seek Support:** If you’re struggling with self-esteem issues related to your acne scars, seeking support from friends, family, or a therapist can be beneficial. Building a strong support system can help boost your confidence and provide emotional reassurance as you navigate the dating scene.
##Final Thoughts
In conclusion, acne scars should not define your worth or hinder your chances of finding love and companionship. While dating with acne scars may pose challenges, it’s important to remember that true beauty lies in authenticity, resilience, and self-love. Embrace your scars as a part of your unique story and journey, and trust that the right person will see beyond physical imperfections and appreciate you for who you are. So, to answer the question – yes, there are people who would date someone with severe acne scars because love knows no bounds and transcends superficial appearances.
Remember, you are worthy of love and acceptance just as you are, scars and all. Embrace your journey and rock your confidence – the right person will see the beauty within you. Stay positive, stay true to yourself, and believe in the power of love.
If you’re struggling with acne scars or seeking support, don’t hesitate to reach out to a dermatologist or therapist for professional guidance. You deserve to feel confident and empowered in your skin. 🌟💕 #AcneScarLove #Empowerment #SelfAcceptance
I actually find them oddly attractive
As a woman with hundreds of body scars, your facial scars are very minimal. Please, don’t let this bother you. When someone is attracted to you, they will not see the scars…they just see the person they love.
I would date anyone
Couldn’t care less about acne scars/regular scars/stretch-marks/whatever. We’ve all got something somewhere, they’re just s sign that you’re a human and you’ve been alive. My wife has some she hates and tbh I never even notice. She’s beautiful and any marks she has just tell me more of her story.
Yes, in fact I married him.
My husband had such bad acne it caused keloids all over his chest, back and shoulders. They never bothered me from day one. I don’t really see them. It’s just him. Confidence may change things for you and it’s something you can change and work on. Confidence is huge.
It wasn’t a deal breaker as attraction intensifies with feelings for me but it’s also something that now reminds me of my ex. My ex has very visible acne scars (worse than yours) and used to have terrible acne until he got into a relationship with me. Now whenever I see a guy with acne scars I think of him and while I’m over him, he’s not someone I want to think of when I look at my partner. We were together for almost seven years so this should give you some comfort. You’re not disgusting. You’re not unworthy of love and intimacy.
I married him. He not only has really bad acne scars, he has a giant scar across his face from a sports injury. Love him to death and wouldn’t change a thing.
My brother also has severe acne scarring, and he’s got a wonderful girlfriend. My uncle and dad both have really bad scarring too, and they’re both happily married for years.
I promise, someone who loves you for you won’t care about acne scarring.
I can’t imagine that being a deal breaker, no.
Yeah, I just checked the pictures in your other posts, it’s not nearly as big a deal as you think.
I am the size and shape of Hodor from Game of Thrones.
No matter your acne scars, you would not be the awkward one in a relationship with me.
Not going to like but *active* bad acne can be a bit of a turn off.
The leftover scars themselves aren’t a big deal, as far as I’m concerned it’s the same thing as having freckles.
Also nobody has a completely 100% even skintone unless they’re wearing makeup, and the photos that you see of people on social media with “really good skin” or “no makeup on” are either using makeup anyway, using filters or (very prevalently) using camera lenses that blur (and therefore even out) their skin tone.
I’m a dude. I would date a girl with acne scars as long as she has other attractive qualities. Acne scars obviously make anyone look worse, but they aren’t a deal breaker.
Just need to find someone that looks past the surface.
I grew up with a parent whose face is covered in ice pick scars. Never bothered me. Personally, I find them endearing.
So I looked at your post history and it may not mean much from an internet stranger but after reading this post then looking at your pictures I thought “oh! That’s not bad!” It’s easy to say, but I know it feels different from your perspective. I recommend going to a dermatologist I’m sure there’s plenty of options to help you like microneedling, lasers, chemical peels. It would be an $$ investment but IMO sometimes we need to invest in ourselves to be confident and happy!
I just saw the scars from the other post. You’re going to be fine. Some picky ass people may care but 95% of people are not going to be bothered by those. Worry less about the acne/scars and work on getting your confidence back.
That breaks my heart your heart feels this way! They don’t look that bad. Truly.
Not what you asked, but relevant: Try dermarolling / derma stamps, do some research on how to use them but they are pretty cheap on Amazon. It’s the cheap way to microneedle at home. You have to be consistent but the results changed my life! My acne scars are almost completely healed 🥰
One of my first big crushes as a teen was on someone who had very heavy scarring on their face from acne (more severe than your pictures seem to show). I wasn’t his type so we never dated. If I were to date again I’d have no qualms about dating someone with acne scarring.
Pretty sure acne scars aren’t a deal breaker, there are way worse things out there.
Acne Scars are not a deal breaker. No scars are.
This does not directly answer your question, but acne scars can be minimized to the point where they may not bother you. I had a bad breakout suddenly at 29, well past the age when skin heals rapidly. I went to two different dermatologists who just wanted money. The third one put me on an 8-month treatment plan of drugs, chemical peeling, and then laser. It wasn’t cheap, but it was well worth it because I was not feeling terrible every time I saw a mirror.
Whenever I shave my head I think it looks like the surface of the moon. All pocked up and full of craters. All the older women (40’s-70’s) at work say things like, “oh who’s this handsome guy!” Or “Damn if only I was 20 years younger.” It’s a little weird but it does make me forget about the acne scars.
Yes, why not?
Your scars are fine. I don’t think they eliminate you from the possibilities of intimacy and romance at all.
I wouldn’t care
One word: Makeup
Absolutely. I’d date somebody with active acne, as long as I could help him remove his blackheads.
I had a huge crush on a guy who had worse acne scars than yours. He never noticed me. I would definitely have dated him though. He was very intelligent and musically talented.
True love is out there! ♥️ my husband always says “I’ll lick your face right now” when I complain about my acne / scars
I checked your profile too, and your skin is not at all what I was expecting! Your skin is 100% fine and not as bad as you’re describing it. That being said, we are our own worst critics.
And I know how self-esteem can take a nose dive and basically get buried due to skin issues…
I also have acne scars (similar story to you: acne started around 10-12yrs old I can’t even remember what not having acne is like…I’m in my mid-30s now and still get a few smaller spots). I’m not married, but have had serious boyfriends. I’ve dated a guy with acne scars.
My best friend (20+ yrs) has acne scars.
I work with a fantastic woman who has acne scars that are worse than mine.
Both of these women are beautiful and happily married to wonderful men.
From my experience, acne scars seem to bother the individual more than other people.
*Your scars do not define your beauty or your worth.*
Scares are just a sign of someone’s past it does not represent their present or futur self in any way.
Totally unqualified medical question, but did you do Accutane for longer than the standard 5 or 6 months? I know some people require a few months longer to keep the acne away for good. 🩷
To answer your question, though, severe acne scars wouldn’t be a deal breaker to me. Scars, including acne scars, add some character. You might want to include some photos of yourself that feel accurate to you on your dating profile. Maybe it’s best to weed the people out who would say no right off the bat and save yourself some disappointment later on. 🩷
You won’t be everyone’s cup of tea, but that’s true of almost anyone.
Confidence is attractive. Passion is attractive. Kindness is attractive. 🩷
I’d focus on developing all of your strengths as much as possible. Don’t let one physical trait define who you are. 😘 Easier said than done, but the best goals are like that.
Sure, as long as they don’t mind dating someone with severe dad jokes scars.
Please find a local esthetician or med spa and get microneedling done. It will improve the texture of your skin. Good luck!
Big boobs? Yes.
My fiance has some pretty aggressive acne scars on her cheeks.
I met her with them and I love her regardless. Your acne scars aren’t you, but they were part of you. Own them, don’t make them the center of a conversation and be confident. (I know easier said than done but hear me out) I tell her I love her for her, all of her. I don’t even notice them unless she points them out because it’s not something I ever focus on. There’s things you can do to hide them to a degree, but own them.
Acnetame supplement in the red bottle on Amazon helps my skin. I only need it as needed..
No doubt about it. I think when you genuinely like/are attracted to a person their personality plays into it more than anything. When you truly love a person the emotional connection should outweigh the attraction you find in them. I just looked at the pictures aswell and I think thats perfectly fine, dont allow that to debilitate your confidence. I would potentially recommend starting a dating profile if you really are looking for somebody to date, and if you arent interested/the idea doesnt work for you somebody could still come along. I think the key is confidence in yourself and loving yourself regardless of what you dont find attractive.
Dated and then married!
My crush at community college had severe acne scars. Honestly never bothered me at all, was even kind of specifically attracted to her in part because of it.
Then I found out she was the girlfriend of a friend of my friend so that was that, lol. This wasn’t even the same friend group so I didn’t expect that at all but I guess it’s a small world.
Your scars look fine. I’d guess the mentality of calling yourself ‘Scarface’ and not feeling worthy of dating anyone is likely what’s holding you back more than anything. Working out and ideally making friends of the opposite gender will help.
Of course
My husband has acne scars and it definitely was not a deal breaker for me.
I know it’s something that people can be self conscious about and understandably so but honestly it doesn’t really bother me.
Of course when you’re dating someone, you get close enough for it to catch your eye once in a while, but it’s not a big deal.
I have some scars myself and they wouldn’t repulse me from another person.
If you’re still getting them, see if it’s dairy that causes that, happens fairly often. Try to eliminate dairy for 2 weeks. And if they’re around your mouth, check if your toothpaste has SLS- sodium lauryl sulphate.
And to fade the scar appearance, you could try some vitamin C serum, it’s pretty cheap and it helped me a lot!
Definitely. There was this girl who used to work at my local Dutch bros, she had very bad acne scars and active acne all over her face but it didn’t bother me at all. She was super sweet, had beautiful eyes, and just the best smile. I wanted to ask her for her number but it’s poor form to do that with somebody who’s on the clock and I never saw her anywhere else, she eventually just kinda disappeared unfortunately, haven’t seen her in a very long time
Of course